I started to go out a lot recently, sometimes alone, sometimes with friends.

I’m able to push myself to do cold approaches in nightclub/daygame but when I get rejected it’s really burn me out, like I really need this to work out. It get to the point that I see a girl, I’m not afraid from cold approaching her but when I feel like there a high chance I will get rejected I just won’t do it to spare the pain it will cause.

I know that rejections supposed to be somewhat unpleasant, but I need to find a way to make it more tolerable cause I imagine talking to girls something more fun than it is for me now.

I’m 23 years old and virgin, so I think sometimes maybe my lack of experience comparing to those around me putting a lot of pressure..