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seduction-ModTeam · 2022-09-21T22:58:58+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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eszibit · 2022-09-21T22:54:43+00:00

Depends on how mature she is, a mature woman would understand, but insecure girls ( of any age ) will take it as either a sign that you're not into her that much or that "you were too nervous " or some shit like that. So you can just explain your reasoning if she asks and it's up to her to decide how she will react.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-09-21T22:55:52+00:00

Did I screw up by turning her down today

To the extent that you didn't want to fuck for your own reasons, good on you, mate. Nobody should ever be pressured into sex, regardless of gender.

To the extent that you declined due to societal baggage about sex on a first date, well, maybe you want to get better at ignoring that shit.

How can I explain this to her tomorrow.

You don't have to explain shit. "No" is a complete sentence. If you want her to understand that it was a temporary decision, you can show that through your actions. Flirt, escalate Kino, and (if appropriate) fuck like rabbits.

whale_sports · 2022-09-21T22:43:36+00:00

Not even sure what you're asking here. Why would you even feel the need to explain yourself. Why even continue seeing her if you're not all that interested in her?

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-09-21T23:59:42+00:00

She was obviously attractive enough to go on a date with, so why decline the puss? I would say bad move.

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