I'm 20 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I would like some tips

tinyservant · 2022-09-21T05:26:09+00:00

In my opinion you shouldn't have offered the option of turning in their work at all.

Next time when you see her just be direct and say that you want to take her out / get her number. If she declines there is no point in interacting with her.

zapadz · 2022-09-21T14:07:38+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRx24sANgGU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnhWiq3E7eI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-jvM3NSs6Y

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twTrrGiRXtY

norkata · 2022-09-21T22:14:08+00:00

Simpin aint Pimpin!

squimd · 2022-09-21T07:07:56+00:00

Bro that was some nice guy shit, dont do girls favours and shit

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-09-21T05:24:12+00:00

sounds like if it works out you all save some time and you make some acquaintances. if i was trying to pick a girl up i'd probably think of something that puts us in the same place more often instead of something that by design means we're hanging less but honestly you probably aren't going to pick these girls up. you're practically shitting yourself at this stage. might i recommend you just aim for friends? friends like that you'd get used to chatting with attractive girls and i daresay they'd be excellent wingmen. something to consider.

2022-09-21T23:30:08+00:00

It seems you are in your head a bit too much with this. They are people too and you’re putting them on a pedestal.

zertsetzung · 2022-09-22T04:32:11+00:00

Game them both don't get oneitis and be stuck on just one.

See if you can't get them out for coffee and then back to your dorm or something not to shortly after.

Don't play it safe don't be a nice guy. It's college, your goal here is to fuck either one or both of them. And do hurry. Women don't stay open forever.

Lastly, don't get caught up in your own head trying to figure out whether or not they are attracted to you or like you. If they are friendly=they are attracted to you. If they are back at your place alone with you, they'll fuck you, given that you aren't a total stiff and act all nervous and hesitant.

Secondly lastly, do not fall for either of them until you have slept with them both. So many men think that they are "knights and that if they just show up with their love and affection and other gallant bullshit", that they will ride off into sunset with their princess and have safe vanilla sex and she will be theirs forever.

Don't be naive. You work on a girl by working your dick into her. That's the way to her heart.

Don't love a woman that gives you nothing in return first (i.e her body).

I just read from a comment below that you offered to turn in all their work for them? Rescind that offer. And grow up. Men get nothing in return for letting women walk all over them.

You want to get women? Or do you want to watch as some other dude beats you to them first and enjoys them all night long?

It really is worse than you could imagine when Chad beats you to a girl. The things he does to her, Oh man we are talking varsity moves bruh. You'd probably throw up if you saw it...

Title	I'm 20 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I would like some tips
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Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	September 21, 2022 4:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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