I know this post may be controversial for some, but will help out a few which makes it worth it.

This is some of the ways I got the initial attraction with some of the fwb’s I’ve had over the years before my sudden deafness an visual impairment from a random assault.

Cold approaching has never been my thing, gave it an honest shot for a long time but decided it just doesn’t suit my introverted personality. So I had to figure out ways to flip the book and get interested females to approach me instead. Here are a few of the cheats I use to make myself stand out more as a super average guy with no outstanding features.

Social proof- I rarely go out alone any more, an when I do it’s to places I know people. I don’t hang with single males and often invite female friends I don’t mess around with. This makes me the most approachable person in the group.

2” lifts- I wear name brand cloths that are fitted and boots with 1” souls an 2” lift in-souls giving me a height of 5’9”. This makes me slightly taller an more in style which attracts 19-26yr mostly. Older than that don’t care about height as much.

Positioning- Always be in the path to an from the entrance of the largest group in the revenue. This enhances visibility and the amount of women I can make eye contact with to signal my availability.

Padding- I feel no remorse for this simply because the fact womenswear lifts their butts, makes flat chest a B or C, make up hides an contour’s their faces. So I wear a groin pad sometimes, and it works wonders! You truly don’t understand the shallowness of some females till you experience this. Just don’t wear it to clubs or places your going to get grinded on.

Have fun- These are all passive buffs to your character, your main goal should never be getting laid, it is only a side effect. Being an introvert an looking like a prowler equals creepy vibe. Having genuine fun with your friends is a good image an gives females good reason not to question why your not coming to them despite making flirty eye contact earlier. Truth is I don’t remember because I did with one girl in each group under the knowledge the most invested an easiest to get along will be the one to approach me.

I was fearful I’d be caught when I started wearin enhancers. But after being at this for a wile come to find out I don’t care if I tricked a shallow woman, they don’t complain if the lights off, and no one questions boots making me seem taller.