I get told I am very attractive and am able to sleep with decently attractive women, but never any really attractive ones

plexto · 2022-09-03T17:00:38+00:00

Women approach men who are out of their league , so you go ahead and talk to gorgeous women cause they are your league

dobbs1997 · 2022-09-03T17:16:28+00:00

Well first off you gotta stop putting women on a pedestal, it seems like you sleep with girls you’re not attracted to because they’re the ones who approach you, you’re scared to approach the ones you really want because you’re putting them up on a pedestal..Recognize your worth, man, it’s not about financial status or looks like some goofies are saying out here. It’s about your confidence and love you have for yourself, have some standards & have the balls to go after what you want and not put up with any bullshit in the process.

plexto · 2022-09-03T17:35:32+00:00

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anon123786261 · 2022-09-03T22:25:50+00:00

Yo imma keep it real w you bro, Idt you’re “very” attractive to be fair. I think you’re above average, but if you get a fresh cut, good clothes, grow a beard, get your chest and shoulders game poppin, you’ll definitely be a 8 or 9.

KingsVictory19 · 2022-09-03T22:32:00+00:00

I don’t see a very masculine face here. That would belong to the Chris Hensworths and Henry Cavills. You’re not in that category. Otherwise, look bro, your looks don’t matter that much once you reach a certain point. If you don’t want to approach then you need to be in settings where you can warm approach. Join clubs. Become a leader in some sort. Become the guy that talks to everyone. Unless you’re a celebrity, no one will approach you. Not even men. I’m not sure as to why you’re not meeting women while you’re in a frat. Don’t you guys throw events? I’d rather approach at an event than at the library like some of these guys are saying.

Senior-Dot387 · 2022-09-03T23:22:48+00:00

Since you clearly have the looks, you need to focus on other aspects that will increase your attractiveness to women. These other aspects in my opinion are confidence and fashion.

Start on fashion first as this will help gain confidence. Wear better fitting clothes, experiment with what clothes suit you and create good looking outfits.

Once you’ve sorted your fashion, you Can start on confidence. I don’t mean actually being confident, this is where you will implement “fake it till you make it”. Whenever you go out, keep your shoulders back, your chest puffed out and always have a welcoming smile on your face. you want people to think you’re completely comfortable and confident. I use this when I go out and women often come to me. You’re better looking than me however so if implemented properly, you should have no trouble bagging the excuse the phrasing premium women.

Warped_Mindless · 2022-09-03T17:55:08+00:00

I’m attractive too and hot women don’t usually approach me either. They do respond well when I approach tho! That’s what you need to do. Go approach. If you don’t know what to say or do there are lots of videos, books, and whatever else on the net that teaches pick up and seduction techniques.

I’m a former dating coach and have NOTHING to sell you but if you want recommendations on what resources to use shot me a PM as I don’t want to be accused of advertising for people.

RideTheRim · 2022-09-04T01:29:56+00:00

Because you’re not going after what you want, plain and simple

Title	I get told I am very attractive and am able to sleep with decently attractive women, but never any really attractive ones
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Date	September 3, 2022 4:54 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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