This is a rather simple inner game question, so here we go.

For context i basically grew up inside a relationship, but i honestly did it 90% for the sex, i learned to like her after a good while after the relationship started.

I couldn't take it forever, eventually broke up, but now everytime i try to be honest with my intentions, as in i really don't want any kind of commitment, their interest evaporates very quickly.

I am not ugly but my appearance has a very nerdy nice guy vibe to it, (thin face/skinny, glasses i will have to use for life, my own interests, not being goofy, white af, etc.), i really believe i am giving relationship vibes even when i do everything i can to get rid of it.

I honestly can't figure out how to get positive responses from girls while not blatantly lying about my intentions, to the point i am starting to consider actually taking the L and dating someone just for sex yet again.

I kind of am morally divided by this, so idk what to do, appreciate any insights.