Hello all,

So time for another fail(lesson for another time).

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So I went to this party of salsa, zouk and bachata.

I had taken some zouk lessons so I went asking different women for dance. I am a beginner so not many were impressed but then I found a girl who seemed interested.

We started with low energy and then got close. We were grinding front face. I just got so lost in the moment that I didn't thought of making move. She was clinging on me like a monkey and I was leading. I don't know why? Maybe I felt in love or what not? Didn't made any move. The "hook up" point was gone!!

Well then after 30 mins of grinding she left to pee. I just can't get over this girl, she is 7/8, so hot.

Fine, I thought ok, let's practice some more moves, picked another girl we danced for like 20 mins, she also left. After some time, she gave me smile, I ignored because I was thirsty and got some water. What is going on here to this Nice guy?

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Ok, now this is most interesting thing happened to me. It was hot inside so I went out and started minding my business on mobile. Now, here comes a girl taking to her husband on phone. She asked me a random question and we started talking. We talked about spirituality and stuff. After some time she asked if I wanted to hook up with someone in the club, what kinda of girls I like, white/black/hispanic?

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Being f*cking nice guy, I am like "I can't be racist", "Girl has to like me also", "I need to see the vibes". Apparently it was her friend's birthday and her friend just wanted to hook up. Well, thought about this after 30 mins lol, by that time, they left.

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Would like to know how to stop falling in love and stop being nice guy?

Any advice from you all?

Many many thanks in advance