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[–]Illustrious_Size610 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Texting you need to skip formalities like “it was nice meeting you” “how are you doing today” etc You need to be fun, say humorous thinks like they are humorous thoughts said o muy loud, inside jokes, funny anecdotes, tease her. You want to get her to laugh, feel emotions, etc.
It’s about playing with her and skipping boring generic talk
[–]ReorgAtty 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree with this. Was there something you laughed or joked about that you can somehow reference? The move should be to get her laughing and remembering how she felt when she was with you. Then, ask if she wants to get drinks Saturday (scheduling might be weird since there’s a holiday; just be guided accordingly).
[–]Mean-Dragonfruit4941 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I already sent the it was nice meeting you. I usually I am pretty good at the text game when it’s not someone I like.
[–]Mean-Dragonfruit4941 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She replied with “me too!” I am leaving her on read cause idk what to say! Any tips?
[–]Illustrious_Size610 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say an inside joke, which is to call out the most memorable moment that happened when you two met.
[–]depth_charge_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right. I like to build fun worlds. Like robbing a bank fantasy type shit. It’s a good tool for screening chicks that have no sense of humour too.
Say shit that will surprise her without being creepy
[–]Smitty-TBR2430 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
THIS is what “day game” is about & how it’s supposed to work.
You don’t go to the mall & walk around for a few hours with the INTENTION of hitting on a bunch of women!! (And to the one dude that posted here a week ago his story about gals reporting him to mall security & wondering why…. Get a clue!!!)
Guys: go to the mall, go to the grocery store, to the bank, to the post office…. Because you have stuff to do! Not for the sole purpose of burning time & hitting on women! But when the right opportunity comes along you certainly can go for it.
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Underrated comment. If you go out and spam approach a girl every 15 minutes, you begin to put yourself in a desperate frame. Attractive men go out into the world, so their thing, and if they see a woman they find attractive, they go up to her and strike up a conversation.
[–]depth_charge_ -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or if you have time to spare and enjoy the hunt, go there with the sole purpose of hitting on chicks. There’s nothing wrong with that.
I guarantee 99% of you dudes like to play video games and watch tv. What if I don’t like those things, but instead like to pick up girls? Is that a waste of time to you?
[–]Smitty-TBR2430 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My point is: if you remain in the same general location - like a shopping mall - for HOURS and REPEATEDLY approach the lady customers you risk having the mall security or local law enforcement get involved. We know it’s happened to one fool who posted his story in this sub rather recently.
If you’ve got that much “free” time on your hands you’ve got more problems than I care to address.
[–]depth_charge_ -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck are you even talking about with the free time comment buddy? If I have a few hours of free time on the weekend I got problems? How many hours a week you spend on video games you fucking clown?
You’re just another goof who parrots whatever he hears from his pua courses on Reddit for upvotes.
[–]ZEUSAJ 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
Did you get a reply back for the nice to meet you text?
[–]Mean-Dragonfruit4941 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Nope it’s been 14 hours I feel like Instagram wasn’t the best contact because it didn’t seem like she was very active on there’s
[–]ZEUSAJ 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
After you get a number from a girl, you never contact her on social media. You call her up.
Secondly, you wait for atleast 5 days before contacting her.
Third thing, you give her your number too by SMS on spot after you get her number telling "Here's my number just in case" so that she has an opportunity to call you first.
When you call her first after say 5 days here's what you say "Hey [her name], this is [your name], how are you doing?" And shut up and wait for her response.
If she doesn't remember you and says "Who?" Just hang up. If she does, ask her out with a definite date and time.
[–]Hadyiz 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nobody will fucking remember u after 5 days Unless ur fucking chris hemsworth
[–]ZEUSAJ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude's not memorable. People do remember if you have created a good impression :)
[–]Hadyiz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gonna say it again nobody is that memorable Even thought they have a memory of the interaction it self
[–]ZEUSAJ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Donot double text my friend
She responded so luckily I am hot I guess lol
[–]ZEUSAJ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are Chris Hemsworth my friend :)
[–]depth_charge_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
it was nice meeting you
That’s so generic avoid that. “You have a real cool energy. You seem like the type of person blah blah”
Yeah she hasn’t responded I’ll try to make jokes if she responds. I am pretty good with that. Except when it’s someone’s I like. I am less likely to go for the right jokes When I don’t care about meeting up. When I like them I either don’t make jokes or make really bad and desperate ones. Like I am trying to make her laugh and not myself idk
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