Stats:

Age: 28

Race: Eastern Asian

Height: 5'7

Location: Las Vegas

Preface: I've been scaling back on game in the last 2 weeks. I think it's due to a mixture of feeling like I'm plateauing and getting burnt out from the clubs. I still love doing this but I gotta change it up. To combat the plateauing issue, I'm going to resume this course I bought when I first started game (todd v verbal game academy for those wondering). I'm also going to try different venues. The clubs are getting repetitive and 90% of the girls are tourist. I want to meet more local girls which led me to the gay club.

The gay club has it's perks. It's a very sex positive environment with essentially no competition. There are still some attractive girls. Volume isn't as high as the night clubs but that's expected. Another thing is that the gay club "peaks" later on at night. So what I've been doing the last two weekends is that I go to the regular clubs from 11-1 or 2am and then head over to the gay club which goes on until 4am whereas regular clubs are dying down by 2:30-3am. I've actually been finding better results at the gay club these last two weekends.

Sets:
1. I see this very hot white girl walking across the dance floor by herself. I open with a push pull per usual. Turns out she's canadian. I've hooked up with a few canadian girls recently so I use my past reference experience to make cold reads on her. I essentially make cold reads until the set hooks and then try to find jump off points to a more genuine and authentic conversation/interaction. The set hooked pretty quickly, within 2 minutes. We're just talking about canada related topics. This whole time we're chatting, I'm doing incremental physical escalation to calibrate how receptive she is. I could tell she likes me so I grab her hand and tell her "come dance with me". She complies and we're now grinding front to front. About a minute in, I go for the make out. Now we're making out. We're grinding and making out for a good 5 minutes. Then she tells me she has to find her brother and friends. I grab her number and we part ways. I didnt mind too much. That was my first set at the gay club and the night was still young.

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  1. Hot black girl at the corner with her 3 friends. She had a very attractive face along with a banging body. I walked pass her friends and opened her with a push pull. I'm feeling pretty confident at this point since I just made out with the canadian girl (set 1) so I go for higher risk direct verbals. She's smiling and giggling. I could tell she's feeling me but I wanted a verbal transition into a kiss so I ask her "have you ever kissed a cute asian boy before?". She says no and I go in for the kiss. It works. Her male gay cousin enters the set and I introduce myself. I tell the whole group "let's all go to the dance floor". They agree. I grab her by her hand and lead to the dance floor. Now we're grinding. 5 minutes in I try to isolate. She said she can't leave her friends but told me to text her since she lives in Vegas. I grab her number and bounce.

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  1. I see a hot blonde girl standing with friends on the second floor balcony. I approach and open her. I make a couple cold reads until it hooks. Turns out she has a thing for asian guys. Her ex of 3 years was asian. She's receptive towards the physical escalation and introduced me to her friend. I chatted with her friend a little bit for group management purposes. Then I tell her "let's all go to the dance floor". She agrees and I lead her to the dance floor. Once we're there, I take her hand and slowly bring her closer to me and now we're grinding. I go in for the make out. Success.

We dance for like 2-3 minutes and then her whole group shows up. They were friendly and engaging me so I was chatting with them. Just more group management. Basically, for the next 20-30 minutes, I'm chatting with her group and grinding with her. I knew the next step was to isolate so I told her "hey let's go outside, it's hella hot in here". She agrees and tells her group that she's going outside with me.

We sit outside and just chat. No game-y shit here. Just a genuine conversation. We chat for 10 minutes and then her friends show up. By now, I've seeded the pull multiple times already. I've told her to come hang out with me at my place afterwards 3 times at different points during the night. So after her friends joined us outside, I was just sitting back and seeing how this plays out. From their conversation, I could tell she was gonna come home with me so I just kept it cool. Continue to build rapport with her friends. Her friends left and I'm like SWEET. I tell her aight let's head out, take her hand, and led her out of the club. We get back to my place and yall know how it goes ;)

Key Take Aways:

  1. Be open minded: Gay clubs are great but I know alot of dudes would write them off because it’s not a conventional venue. Dont write off a venue or idea just because it’s unorthodox. One thing game has taught me is to be more open minded. Anything can work. Just because something sounds unconventional, lame, or cringe to you, doesnt mean it doesnt work. Field test it and see for yourself. For example, the cute asian boy line. I sometime get hate for that line because it’s cRiNgE but I also get hella results from that line.
  2. Dont get complacent: just like anything else in life, game is something you can always keep learning and get better at. Im feeling like Im plateauing so I've decided to resume the course I bought months ago. There’s always room for improvement.
  3. Don't rely on indicators of interests (IOIs): I constantly see people advising other men to look for IOIs which is so inefficient and dumb. This blonde girl had ZERO idea of my existence until I opened her. Turns out I'm just her type. If I was relying on IOIs then I would have never pulled her. You wanna know if she's attracted to you? Go fucking talk to her and find out. That's how. Fuck IOIs.
  4. Lead: Noticed how I always lead in all my sets. Just lead.
  5. Group management: I don't really do this often but for set 3 I did. Nothing fancy. Just build rapport and gain their approval. I personally dont really like group management because it bores me but I guess it did help in set 3. They were willing to leave her with me.
  6. Seed the pull: Before the blonde girl and her friends parted way at the end of the night, I've already tried for the pull multiple times. You should always seed the pull or try for the pull before the "end" of the night. I was trying for the pull since we were on the dance floor. This way, by the time her friends joined us outside again, there's no confusion on her part. If she doesn't leave with her friends then we all know what's up.