What does it mean for a man to be confident?

Captain_w00t · 2022-06-27T22:42:10+00:00

A definition of confidence I like is: “owning whatever you do or say, with the confidence that whatever happens you’re going to handle it with success”.

Even if you don’t know what you’re doing, going with the flow and acting with unapologetic honesty it’s a sign of confidence.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-28T01:56:36+00:00

When it comes to women it means being without fear, phobias and anxiety. Think about it this way. The number one thing women are looking for is a guy they can feel safe and protected with. That's why many women like buff and tall guys. They naturally look more intimidating to others and like they can protect a woman. But at the end of the day, if you are not buff and tall, you can compensate by having no fear.

There is a problem though. There is one trick about being fearless and dating coaches hate him for it. And that trick is that you have to actively face your fears and go out and do the stuff that terrifies you. Let me put it this way. If you are afraid to go up to a girl and express that you find her attractive, how can she depend on you to protect her from other men and from the bad world? She can't, because you are a pussy. Women judge every little sign of fear you show and their lady boners shrink rapidly if they see you being full of phobias.

ShortStuffV2 · 2022-06-27T23:09:44+00:00

Usually in this case it just means you know how to carry and lead a conversation, you don't really care about mistakes you just keep going like nothing happened

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-28T02:30:30+00:00

Confident meaning talk and sound sure of what you are saying and doing while talking to girls.

Don’t stutter. Don’t hesitate to make a move or when you want to say a joke.

Don’t act defensive if a girl seems to judge you badly on something you said. Don’t try to justify yourself.

Own your current situation when talking to her, own who you are, own your tastes, own what you currently look like no matter if you have visible flaws, own what you said and don’t back track on what you said just because she doesn’t seem to approve.

Don’t overthink and just act and make the move, don’t over analyse if it’s right or if she wants to, and just do it.

Contango6969 · 2022-06-28T09:07:59+00:00

Yeah it’s about having low anxiety. Exposure helps, so does exercise and a healthy lifestyle, so does alcohol. Go with all three for best results lol

shxbxx · 2022-06-28T17:28:12+00:00

believe you can do something

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Title	What does it mean for a man to be confident?
Author	Everlast23
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	June 27, 2022 9:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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