About to turn 30, though my n-count is fairly high I wasted my 20s on trying to save shitty LTRs that were far from worth it. Inbetween LTRs I was a proud man whore.
I just came out of the latest one now where sex was infrequent and used as a reward.
Feels like hitting 30 precludes me from a lot of the dating scene (I only want plates and FWBs; no more LTRs to ruin my mojo).
I'm doing very well money-wise, physique and looks are solid and have a cool life with cool hobbies. Game and confidence is good but only when with mates and when slightly buzzed - no day game whatsoever but get lots of IOIs and eyefucking.
Should I expect that things will be more difficult now that I'm not in my 20s anymore? On Tinder I keep matching with wall or post-wall women instead of the young hotties.
Also a side question - how do I use the fact that I make good money and have a prestigious job to my advantage? I don't want to seem like beta bucks and I don't want to be paying for anything (unless she's a professional and the transaction is clear)...
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