The myth that guys have all the time in the world "to have" children.

notarealpersondw · 2022-06-25T19:10:45+00:00

I don’t understand this rant, or how it relates to this sub but I will tell you you’re absolutely wrong.

jackzander · 2022-06-25T19:15:47+00:00

But you can still have them. And you will be mature enough to teach them more wisdom than a 25 year old dad could. You can do a cracking job as a 50 year old new dad in various ways. It's definitely better than a woman who by that age is way past even being biological able to have children, sadly.

jackzander · 2022-06-25T19:52:39+00:00

r/lostredditors

Amikatey · 2022-06-25T20:15:40+00:00

Were did you get this philosophy from?????

notarealpersondw · 2022-06-25T23:57:03+00:00

Ok, I want to agree with you but this sounds like a bitter rant from a female who is angry at biology for some weird reason.

1) correct as a male it’s harder to have kids the older you get

2) BUT when people say you have more time we mean compared to women. We have almost 2x more time than women to have children.

This isn’t about being super human or a tough guy this is simply biology. Men don’t carry the same risks as women do when it comes to child birth, the trade off is that women have the luxury of being pickier than men when it comes to dating for those reasons mentioned.

But in my own opinion, Im almost 30 and childless but know it’s getting “late” even as a man so I would love to have children soon while I still have energy and life about me.

Simp4Aurelius · 2022-06-25T22:58:11+00:00

I agree, but your reasoning is pretty absurd. The idea that men (but especially women) have all the time in the world to have children is actually quite problematic just economically and demographically. You as an individual can raise a child quite well if you have them in your 40's to 50's, BUT the more that idea becomes common place, the more stress is put on demographic factors that are already very stressed. That's not even mentioning how terrible that is to do to your kids, especially if you haven't maxed out your financial planning over the past 30 years of your life.

Title	The myth that guys have all the time in the world "to have" children.
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Date	June 25, 2022 5:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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