I'm going to make my very first approach on Saturday

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-24T02:32:45+00:00

She is not rejecting you for who you are because she doesn’t even know you; all she knows from you is that t few seconds or minutes of the interaction. So what she is rejecting is how you are playing the game, not your whole self because to truly know your whole self she needs to spend months or even years talking spending time with you.

Also, you could be better than her objectively speaking with a better career, more hobbies, more intelligence, etc and she could still turn you down even if she is not interested ata all and is still living with her parents.

Because dating isn’t about proving your worth or who is better than the other person or about looking for validation that your pools are good enough, it’s about chemistry and connection.

And since chemistry and connection is not something that defines you, it makes no sense to take it personal if there is a lack of chemistry or connection.

As for how to act if she rejects you, just say: “Thank you for helping me to be more humble, but just so you know, now i find you even more attractive, if you change your mind let me know, see you around”

EatRocksYT · 2022-06-24T01:19:08+00:00

Goodluck. When I get rejected I say "well it was worth a shot, take care" rejection is no a big deal especially when you have a bunch more women to approach

ShiftReasonable4066 · 2022-06-23T22:50:58+00:00

Rejection is a prerequisite for getting numbers, dates, gfs, and hook ups. It's normal and actually precedes positive outcomes. The non needy male knows it and isnt trying to avoid it by any means

Although i can explain to you how rejection for the most part will have nothing to do with you. If you're really wanting to be successful. You'll have to understand that whatever type of rejection happened is besides the point

To be successful rejection should be embraced. Positive outcomes come after x amount of rejection. Never before

Get rejected 10 straight times. Come back and report how happy you are with your first number following after. Rinse and repeat until you get a date

The rest means nothing

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-06-24T02:58:17+00:00

It's ok if it is personal. You must get rejected by many to find a girl who fits you. You need to take the step and be man enough to take that rejection, and you can do it. It may be painful, but that's how you're going to meet the girl who you're searching for.

(And she is waiting for you too. She's waiting there all alone, for you to go through all of those rejections, so you can meet her.)

Title	I'm going to make my very first approach on Saturday
Author	Deadgoku
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	June 23, 2022 10:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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