I lean heavily towards meeting women in social venues (bars, parties, events) because I’d argue the women who go to said venues are “realer” than women you meet in your day to day life, walking along the masses. At least at, say, a party you see a side of the girl she probably wouldn’t show at, say, her work or on the streets (mostly a party girl side, but it’s up to you to filter out which ones are more toxic than the others). Whereas among the masses, they’ll be on autopilot just like everyone else (the 80%ers if you will) - thinking like everyone else, never standing out or having an opinion or ambition of their own, and never honest with you.

Hell, from personal experience, even back in my hometown of Irvine, CA - even Orange County as a whole - everyone just embodies that lifestyle of comfort, convenience, and routine, and if you don’t embody it even a bit, you’re just pegged as a black sheep forever in OC. Everyone there is just polite to save face and can’t be honest with you. You can’t even joke around with or have a REAL conversation there with a girl without her just dropping you from the get-go. Then when I moved I out to SAN DIEGO, where the women are far more attractive and people there in general don’t have hang-ups or are so uptight or repressed, quality of life in general there just drastically increased.

Any thoughts? Which would you guys prefer - daygame or social venues?