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[–]Peejmeister24 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I know you hate to hear this but right now just isn’t the time in your life for you to be chasing women. Work on yourself for a few years and the difference in your quality of life will be astounding. Godspeed brotha
[–]dheidjdedidbe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
What if your quality of life is already amazing?
[–]Peejmeister24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Gonna need more info to assess the situation
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Such as?
[–]Peejmeister24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Are you in a similar situation to OP? Are you saying that despite you having a great quality of life, you’re not able to pull women? Just not quite sure what you’re asking
[–]dheidjdedidbe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I’m a below average guy on the looks scale. No denying it. I have a solid life for myself at 24. I do everything I can to meet and get to know girls but none of them are ever interested in me at all.
I’ve even had a few girls pretend to flirt and be attracted to me just to laugh at me when they break the news that they were faking because they wanted to see how I would react with my hopes up.
[–]Peejmeister24 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like you may be projecting some neediness. Try your best to stay indifferent around women, as hard as it may be. Basically try to balance acting like you more or less don’t care if you never see her again, while still enjoying her company and conversation in that moment. Hard balance, I know. Socializing more in general can be very helpful with this. Socializing well with men is a huge step to being able to do so with women. How far below average would you say? Getting in shape and a different style of haircut can do wonders for people.
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So I get what your saying about projecting needinesses. I try not to but as you say it’s hard to find that balance. I’ll ask a friend to watch me sometime and help.
True rateme said I was a 3.5-4 (on an alt account). My lack of any likes on tinder confirms this. Even average guys get an occasional like or two. I am in amazing physical shape. More endurance and lean over brute strength and size, since I’m a long distance runner and climber. Hair is stylish I think. Mix between surfer and long hair thor.
[–]Peejmeister24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How old are you?
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m 24, almost 25
[–]Electric_kundalini 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need therapy my browski
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In a similar position but I graduated college last month. sounds like you need to yolo a job. That’s what I’m doing before anything.
I recommend doing something remote if you can.
Maybe take the time you have now without a job to go to the gym and lift heavy to bulk up. I’m also skinny so I relate
If you have no degree/skills, yolo Wendy’s and become a manager. Something is better than nothing
[–]Fapandwarmshowers 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
seek help you sound mentally ill
[–]sexsex69420irl 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Find an ugly girl then.
[–]dheidjdedidbe -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Even they aren’t attracted to me. Plus I could never date anyone I wasn’t attracted to. If she found out I didn’t find her attractive that’s terrible.
[–]sexsex69420irl 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Attraction can be emotional,if you get to know them you will find them attractive.
[–]RanchHandlher 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
First sentence proves you don't lack humor or creativity.
Being too skinny is an easy thing to change. Increase calories, and lift. Heck just go get a job in construction or something physically demanding. That will also solve your lack of money and give you gainful employment. It's summer, so even if you're in school you can achieve that. If you choose construction, you'll also learn a trade and will develop useful knowledge.
Good luck.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So let me get this straight.
You say you are ugly, deformed, don’t have charming social skills, you don’t have any talents, you still live with your parents and you have no job?
Well, i’m not gonna lie to you, your odds at finding a person who likes you if that is your situation is very small like less than 1%.
Now if you do something to change at least some of those circumstances; your odds might increase.
like working out and eating healthy, getting a job, getting plastic surgery, etc…
But if you refuse to change anything about your circumstances then you will most likely die alone.
[–]Beemer_Fan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Beemer_Fan 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm 22 and I don't have a ugly face or a bad looking body but I feel like a complete failure as Im a guy that still need to be supported by my family...
These shits passing through mind completely tear apart self-esteem as it stops you from going forward and believe me it gets worse day by day
In seduction case I actually can be funny or flirt and I got bunch of female FRIENDS but in these 2 years of studying pu shit (and being single) NO-ONE ever wanted to have a serious relationship with me which slowly makes me to truly believe that I got no talent in seducing women.
And that's why I got an appointment of a therapy session with a professional to see wtf is wrong and I think you should do it too
Good luck
[–]HandsomeBadness 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’ll have much better luck once you’re independent man, build a career
[–]dheidjdedidbe -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No you won’t. If you don’t have luck or have any experience in high school or college (if you went) you won’t have any luck when you have a successful life.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re not a failure being supported by family I’m also 21 back home.. especially if you just graduated college no shame in that
do you shower?
[–]Southofsouth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Let me guess. You want a girl who is pretty. Have you asked out a girl who is in your league?
[–]dheidjdedidbe -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So should I lie to a girl and pretend to find her attractive? Plus girls in my league don’t find me attractive.
[–]Southofsouth 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, then maybe you should just give up you know. Go become a monk or something. Find a meaning.
My meaning is friends, family, my hobbies and work.
I won’t give up until I complete my goal of hugging a girl. Then I will be set for life.
Buy a hat. Hit the gym.
[–]Big_P4U 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't look awful
[–]5ive_Rivers 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make a conscious effort to cultivate an abundant, can-do mentality. Solutions flow from this.
[–]IndianAudi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are many decent women that may not be beautiful but would love your affection and time. So maybe focus on making their lives better by having you in it?
[–]Only_Commercial_774 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A girl is the last thing you need you have to start getting an income than work on your body than gain confidence to work on your face and if you need pussy which Ik we all do go out and pay for it
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well you feel so low because you know you have nothing to offer a partner and realize you’re personally a dime a dozen. You have nothing to offer a partner because you’re a baby in terms of your life and that’s more typical of 20 year olds than you think. You’re at the beginning, meaning there is action required of you to find passion in life, gain life experience, and grow before including a partner. Maybe unpack why you feel like you need a partner so bad to begin. What makes up your ethics, convictions and goals in personal development? Do those even align with this gf fantasy yet? Then once you know that stuff you can even accurately measure what you find attractive. You’re talking leagues but aren’t old enough to compete or to watch most of the time (it’s an analogy, idk you).
It's doesn't matter bruv, if a man like Stephen Hawking can fuck few bitches in his life then you still have lot of time now keep your head up, always smile & thanks God for this precious life, anyhow if a bitch reject you for any reason just remember you dodge a bullet from getting a STI. Cheers
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