Ok y'all, you better sit down for this one, because I'm going to be dispensing some nuggets here.
First of all, y'all way too easy. Y'all always thinking "how can I impress this girl", "what cool/funny/amusing thing should I text her to make her attracted", "should I wait 3 days or 5 days to call her", blah blah blah.
Listen: this is the paradigm of you chasing the woman you want and trying to impress her. Women have one game and one game only and it is so effective it literally works on every guy. The game is "all men treat me like a sex object, it's so tiring, why should I let you smell my precious pussy (what have you done to deserve it)."
Naturally guys play into that hook, line and sinker and will qualify themselves to a woman right away. "Oh, Im not like that, Im not like other men, behold how fantastic and amazing I am and how I don't treat women like sex objects", blah blah blah.
I have to admit this game is astounding and it works 60% of the time every time. So what do we do about it? How do we counter it, how do we battle it, how do we get around it?
Answer: we don't! That's right, not only do you not do any of these things, but you actually take their game and appropriate it for yourself.
That's all you need to do. Instead of looking at a woman and thinking "what do I need to do to have a chance with an amazing creature like her", you look her and approach to see what she can do to make you interested. All you need to do is give her a chance to impress you. Even giving her a chance is a tall order and quite a challenge.
Sounds simple and easy, right? Well, not so fast. Most guys will subconsciously resist this behavioral change. Why? Because they perceive their old paradigm of chasing (supplicating to) women as being advantageous. How can I get a girl unless I chase her? Women are the choosers after all! IfnI don't chase them and try super hard to get them interested, I will end up alone.
Well, perhaps you are right. Perhaps you shouldn't change. Perhaps women should change. I'm sure this will go well.
But if you are ready to try something new, I urge you to try this!
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