should I move on?

Traditional-Fig9419 · 2022-06-07T00:42:58+00:00

I would reach out again! Stop saying sorry, and being nice for no reason. Remember the stick and the carrot, don’t give out rewards for no reason! Also when you reach out don’t ask her for a time just say “hey let’s got to dinner on XX ar XX time”

IamTam6868 · 2022-06-07T00:42:12+00:00

When someone is interested you absolutely know without playing guessing/waiting games.

Go on with your life. If she messages back and you're still interested take her out.

ugglygirl · 2022-06-07T00:42:18+00:00

Next time ask for a specific date rather than ‘next week’. In fact, just for practice sake reach out to this one tonight and say, would you like to have dinner Thursday…. If she says she’s busy but doesn’t offer a solid alternative then you can drop it and move on.

In general, it’s best to be specific about date nights. That allows for an easy way to communicate and reveals interest pretty well. Sorry I can’t -maybe some other time = No

johnbugara · 2022-06-07T00:47:29+00:00

ok man you blew it for this week its cool doesn't mean you're cooked. by saying I can grab dinner when your free to her you just said you have no plans all week and are willing to revolve your life around her.... not good!!!

give it a few days, and then message her and say you want to take her to x place on y day at z time (a couple days from when you text). this shows confidence and taking control is an attractive trait. also making plans is part of your duty as a man.

I wouldn't be shocked one bit if she agrees to a date if you do this, and if she doesn't then it IS time to move on.

Good luck!

JLifts780 · 2022-06-07T01:45:10+00:00

Give a specific date or time. If you ask if she maybe wants to do X at some arbitrary time it gives her an out.

Be bold ask her “hey lets go do insert somewhere fun on Tuesday!” At that point it’s up to her to reschedule whereas the former she can just say no right away.

justmyballsandmyword · 2022-06-07T02:41:44+00:00

Bro it’s been three days since you last seen her. Asking her to hang out again the day after you hung out seems way to fast and needy. Please don’t message her again. Wait for her to reach out. If she doesn’t, you got your answer. If she does reach out and doesn’t mention hanging out, DONT ask her again, yet. Just respond but not to quickly and not back and forth all day. You are trying to hook up, not be her texting bestie. Maybe in like two weeks, ask her again. If she doesn’t commit, move on.

conker1264 · 2022-06-07T02:48:45+00:00

Anytime someone acts flaky just send a text saying let me know when you want to meet up again, if you’re not interested that’s fine too.

You’ll get your answer.

Talktomeifyouneed2 · 2022-06-07T03:36:55+00:00

I like the advice some people give here but my Take is, if the date went “well” y’all should’ve vibe & connected well after the date, the last 2 messages between y’all gave me vibes that the date wasn’t intimate enough therefore she didn’t have enough desire to even text you within the next day. My experience when I go on dates & it goes “well” I usually pick up the phone & call her & we be talking for hrs & let her know I “WANT “ to meet her again. Just move on & if you see her in person at a store or mall by chance don’t be afraid to spark things up again.!!!

harmonica-blues · 2022-06-07T04:55:50+00:00

Suggest a day to meet up. If she says yes, then yay! If she is still interested but can't, she will likely suggest another day

Candid_Tumbleweed134 · 2022-06-07T16:12:09+00:00

Move on until she brings it up. If she doesn’t then you got your answer.

Title	should I move on?
Author	throwaway46961024
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	June 7, 2022 12:36 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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