What to say to a girl who's saying that she hopes I'm happy with just one girl?

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2022-06-05T16:17:59+00:00

I assume this is coming from a young lady you’ve been hitting on but have yet to sleep with.

Unfortunately, this is the type of question that comes from a girl that’s been fucked-&-dumped; or perhaps she has seen scoundrel behavior from men close to her (eg dad or brother). It’s not so much a shit test; rather, she doesn’t want to drop her panties for you & never see you again.

There is no good way to reply. I might suggest she’s throwing out a question that would be more appropriate later in a relationship & “we” aren’t quite there yet. It may be prudent to ask her why she is asking such a question / throwing out such a statement.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-05T18:06:35+00:00

If you're getting the reaction during your very first interaction, i.e., on your approach, then you are coming across as overly gamey and insincere

If you're getting this reaction on the 3rd date, turn it back in them: 'do I seem like the type of guy who would be happy with just one girl'

There's a lot more to it, but that's the basic gist of how to handle it.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-05T22:43:15+00:00

Because you are not really qualifying them. If the girl feels like you only want her because she is pretty and cute and nothing more, that’s what will happen. She feels like you are a player, who will dump her after sex because you see nothing but a hot body or pretty face.

You need to let them know that you are not just choosing them because they are pretty or hot, but that you also see something special in her, some traits that make her different in your subjective opinion to other pretty girls.

That’s what you are missing, making her feel like for you this girl is special for x reasons, not just another number in your body count.

Suspicious-Bid-9583 · 2022-06-05T19:19:49+00:00

Agree and aplify. Say naw you're never gonna be happy with one girl(in a humerous way ofc) women don't like the overly simpy I'll be there for u no. Matter what types .

Title	What to say to a girl who's saying that she hopes I'm happy with just one girl?
Author	George97o
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	June 5, 2022 3:09 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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