I feel like I’m a waste of a decently good looking person. I don’t live up to this “potential” ppl say I got .

CocoBananananas · 2022-06-03T04:18:05+00:00

Be happy you aren't ugly.
Best way to talk to girls if you're not sure what to say is this, take the attention off you, observe the girl before / as you approach and compliment either the shoes, eye makeup or earrings/necklace. Something that isn't obvious. These are the things they like. Not the dress or t shirt whatever. Let them do all the talking. Usually there is a story behind these items and they will be impressed you noticed.
Remember, as a good looking person you can approach anybody, that's a great part of being good looking.
As they talk they will give you things to ask other questions about that will give you a chamce to get comfortable and they will feel special because a good looking person who is interested in things they care about wants to talk to them
They will start to ask you questions. And you go from there.

If the conversation doesn't work out, remember point 1.

Start again.

Digital-Bionics · 2022-06-03T07:50:31+00:00

Luckily social intelligence is something that can be developed and grown, socialising can be practised little by little. If you set aside a bunch of time here and there to get out there and practice connecting and interacting with different people, it will pay dividends. Leave the disinterested be and never take that personally, no one person can appeal to everybody.

vardarac · 2022-06-03T06:21:21+00:00

Everyone says everyone fails and takes Ls but I’ve taken way too many Ls compared to wins and it just seems like I’m a failure in general

Realistically dude compared to how down bad a lot of dudes are here you're doing just fine. The fact is that if you could do more at this moment, you would, but you're not. If you're not okay with that then figure out what you need to change and stomp the gas hard on fixing it.

You can't change the past, nobody else cares about whether the girls you "should" be banging match your DNA-given looks. But you can try to create the life you want going forward.

ftdrain · 2022-06-03T08:27:06+00:00

"We are under no obligation to be who we were 5 minutes ago" Alan Watts

EnjoyUpdates · 2022-06-03T09:54:46+00:00

Welcome to the dating market of today. You'll take plenty of Ls and few Ws. I'm also a guy who is constantly being called good looking. The last girl I dated turned me down because she felt she couldn't trust me because I was "super cute". All I can do is approach pretty women and hope for the best and that's what I recommend you do too.

Title	I feel like I’m a waste of a decently good looking person. I don’t live up to this “potential” ppl say I got .
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Date	June 3, 2022 4:06 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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