I’m an (19f) and I had sex with a (31m)i really wanna do it again but he doesn’t talk to me any more.

mstislawsliwko · 2022-05-26T09:21:02+00:00

Maybe you should find a stable relationship and treat yourself in first place? Seems like you fell in love with him but he didn’t so you gotta move on. That’s pointless to chase him. You are too young and easy to be manipulated by

keep-it_casual · 2022-05-26T09:29:59+00:00

I'll be 100 percent honest with you. Move on it will only get worse if you continue with him. Once he sees you are no longer available he will begin to say sorry, and that he was scared, and will try to get you again. It will all be just to satisfy himself again. No matter what he tells you don't go back. Fuck him he used you for his pleasure . Now you get to find someone that does care about you. Sex will never be good with this guy. Go for the nice chubby guy. he will make sure you cum everytime and will not treat you like shit unless he is an asshole. Good luck

newbphil · 2022-05-26T09:17:57+00:00

Why the FUCK would you want to bang this loser again?! Go on a dating app and you'll find someone to bang you within an afternoon. As to you questions:

Are you being used? Probably.
Does he like you? Probably not considering he never tried to get you off.
How do you fuck him again? If you have any self respect you wouldn't.

Also, wtf is with the "I love you" thing, that shit sounds creepy.

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-05-26T13:44:51+00:00

31 year old who can’t last more than “10 pumps” haha. Playing games with you (a 19 year old) like a “little school boy”. This dude sounds like a joke.

If this is actually true I would think that he’s probably trying to keep it secret bc he’s embarrassed/thinks it would look bad and doesn’t at all take you seriously but wants to be able to fuck you - although it sounds like he can barely do that.

I’m sure your hot enough to get sex elsewhere , this is a co-worker which is a problem also, he likely has for this before/this is is motive, he might be trying to keep a distance from you as to not have it be known for other and or bc he has other things going on. Honesty the dude sounds like a loser and like he has issues. And slightly narcissistic with the desire to manipulate people.

This situation will only get worse for you.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-26T10:07:54+00:00

Jesus this sub is filled with white knights.

No wonder every other post is by some dude who can't get laid. Now you're all seething about some 31 year old who bangs 19 yos but can't even last 2 minutes.

OP, the most you can do is invite this guy out for drinks, or invite him over for drinks, or maybe even tell him you want to cook for him one night (which will make you stand out from other girls). But tbh, it sounds like he's god awful at sex, as most guys are, and you could get the same or better experience from any stuffed shirt at a bar or from tinder.

solomon_arba · 2022-05-26T09:25:43+00:00

Nobody can't say whether he likes you or not since we didn't hear his side. He may just be teasing you and making you frustrated so that you desire him more and it seems working or he know you like him and he's confident to leave and come back to you whenever he wants or some other.

Now, you got many options before you. You can continue to throw yourself to him and remain in your situation or bear your sexual frustrations and move on to someone else or fuck someone for release then think later and much more.

You have your freedom, you make your options

revente · 2022-05-26T10:45:08+00:00

I am being used ? Does he like me ? How do I get sex from him again?

Sounds like an insecure weirdo. Red flag.

borderline_autistic1 · 2022-05-26T11:52:37+00:00

So my coworkers back in the day banged these older losers with this going through their brains? Jesus

octopusinflames · 2022-05-26T14:46:57+00:00

Kinda sounds like he's embarrassed about how quick he finished and now he's poking fun at you to make himself feel better and maybe make you seem less credible if you were to tell people about it. Probably best to move on.

Title	I’m an (19f) and I had sex with a (31m)i really wanna do it again but he doesn’t talk to me any more.
Author	iwantproblems52
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	May 26, 2022 8:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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