post-hook up question for guys, do you think about it a lot after hooking up or you just move on since you already get what you want?

itachiman95 · 2022-05-12T08:32:02+00:00

If i have a connection with the girl i wouldn’t mind talking and hooking up again. I could never be heartless to bang n ditch

Lon4reddit · 2022-05-12T09:51:58+00:00

It depends I'd say on what he wants

LostFYI · 2022-05-12T10:20:20+00:00

He probably does think about it. When or how often we cannot say

PM_ME_FEMALE_ASS · 2022-05-12T10:58:58+00:00

Hooking up with a friend is different than with a date. Relationship dynamics are different. It could turn into a FWB if it goes well. If it doesn't... Personally, I don't hook up with female friends I'm close with. I cherish the friendship more than risking it for a fuck.

Have hooked up with a close friend only once. We're still tight to this day. We just don't bring it up. I'm the rare shance that it does, we just laugh and joke about it.

I've only ever hooked up with friends bordering past acquaintances. One turned into an amazing FWB with whom we're still cordial. The other, zero contact.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-12T12:06:29+00:00

Many guys lose interest after sex. This leads to some girls mistakenly thinking that then they need to keep away the sex to keep him interested for longer…

The problem though is that even if the guy falls for that (rare) it’s still a matter of time until you both have sex, and he loses interest after that, no matter how much time he has spent chasing.

So this leads to grips resenting guys, cuz they seem like they just want sex, that they never want something serious no matter what.

Personally it’s better to find out soon if he is interested, if the guy still wants to see you and do other things after sex, that’a probably cuz he likes you.

Many guys will chase a girl not because they like her, but because they are horny. So as soon as their needs are satisfied they see her for what she is, and realise that she just isn’t the kind of girl they would want for something serious.

It’s almost like a test for them like: Wanna know if you like a girl? sleep with her. Now you still wanna spend time with her? Yes. Cool you like her.

Fluffy_Scarcity_5200 · 2022-05-12T23:58:28+00:00

I have a body count but that’s not what I think about. I just think about who made the most sense for me who basically made me feel the best.

Title	post-hook up question for guys, do you think about it a lot after hooking up or you just move on since you already get what you want?
Author	ihavenolayfu
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	May 12, 2022 7:38 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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