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[–]Thin_Protection5616 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good job OP
[–]Codi_Banks 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Awesome post! These are the kinds of things i love reading on here.
Just curious but do you have any advice on making girls laugh? I usually only do it unintentionally lol
[–]ThrowghAway74 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Humour is a difficult thing to convey to someone. My humour in particular is pretty simple. I either make strange associations that barely make sense, over exaggerate, or ask a really cheeky question that’s obviously a joke.
Examples I used with the girls
Strange associations: First girl mentioned a cologne had a “spicy” smell to it. I replied “So more of a Habanero or Jalapeño?”
Over exaggerate: Second girl suggested I try this one cologne that had a cowboy picture behind it. I said “I like this one but I think I’d need to wear two cowboy hats to pull it off.”
Cheeky Question: During checkout I asked her if I could get a bag for my cologne. She said sure and gave me this really cute small bag. I just kind of smiled and said “Are you sure you don’t have anything smaller?”
Some of these sound corny and I’m no comedian, but tonality, confidence, and a good facial expression to go along with it will help sell it. If you find it funny, they will too. Make yourself laugh first.
[–]Bold_Exotic_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Humor. Your pure humor. Say witty things or the most random thing or talk about a crazy event that happened or get sassy with them or tease them but in a friendly way. Things that you would laugh yourself. If she doesn’t laugh then your humor just isn’t for her.
[–]djangountamed13 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't hit on the hired guns. There's plenty of women who don't work there who you can talk to. No way to gauge real interest when it's an employee.
[–]ThrowghAway74 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s totally valid advice. When I got to the mall it was closing in 30mins and relatively dead. I’ll for sure try to avoid employees next time
[–]Bold_Exotic_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well OP you sound attractive and have piqued my curiosity🧐
Ikik please don’t repeat the “Sir, this is a Wendy’s” to me🤣
[–]ThrowghAway74 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eh don’t think I’m anything special. Struggled with body dysmorphia most my life due to some pretty bad bullying in my youth. I still struggle with trying to like my appearance, but I do put a lot of effort in trying to look my best. I go to the gym 6 days a week, get a haircut every 2-3 weeks, whiten my teeth, update my wardrobe fairly often. It also helps to be 6’0 175lbs too I guess 🤷♂️
Same exact thing. Body dysmorphia. And struggled with ED. But thanks to my two besties, I have gotten so much better and started actively going to the gym and trying to improve my self esteem😊
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