Running out of things to say to a girl at a bakery. Any solutions?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-04-30T22:08:39+00:00

Adopt an abunce mindset, the girl at the bakery shouldn't matter. Talk to every girl u run into, it will take the pressure off so that u will hit flow state and come up with crafty things to say. Even if u can't think of anything, don't be afraid of an awkward silence or saying something stupid because it gives the girl an opening to return the banter or laugh it off, if u hold a strong frame awkwardness can be funny, if she don't like it move onto the next one.

jsbach123 · 2022-04-30T21:24:40+00:00

If you're trying to impress her, I wouldn't just crack jokes. I believe some in the seduction community calls this a "dancing monkey". It just makes you look clownish.

I would raise some sort of light conversation. If you have genuine curiosity about others, there'd be plenty of things to ask about at the store.

Being curious is one of the advice given in Dale Carnegie's book How to Win Friends and Influence People, the greatest self help book of all time. Being curious might sound common sense but lots of people aren't. If you are, it's impossible not to have something casual to ask.

KingOfTheNorthern · 2022-04-30T21:28:41+00:00

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Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-04-30T21:17:46+00:00

Was going to offer advice, but you're in the wrong sub

KingOfTheNorthern · 2022-04-30T22:05:04+00:00

Ask her if she has cherry pie?

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-30T22:26:03+00:00

How about:

"Go out with me."

Title	Running out of things to say to a girl at a bakery. Any solutions?
Author	KingOfTheNorthern
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	April 30, 2022 9:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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