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[–]TheJackal619 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
The sex means more to you than it does to her. Don’t worry about the outcome. These women are reptilian, the second you show any type of emotional investment, they flee. Because in her mind she has categorized you as a dude she just fucks, nothing more.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. My prob is she said she was looking for long term. And if she would of straight up told me just sex I wouldn’t of tried to like chase her and or pursue her in anyway. Idk she confused the shit out of me
And she might not ever try and talk to me again who knows I won’t text her ever unless she does.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She’s got problems. I wouldn’t pursue this woman if I were you. Here’s a piece of advice my father once told me that’s served me well. - Never get involved with a woman that has more problems then you.
[–]alpharavenn9x 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great advice
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lol yea she came off as having her shit together
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She clearly doesn’t and I would be very cautious about hooking up with her in the future. At best, she might have borderline personality disorder and at worst she might be bipolar. If she accuses you of something, you’re in a deep hole with no way out. And I’m not referring to her hole.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well either way she hasn’t texted me back since Monday. And we were texting every day so idk
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Count your blessings and move on. Never stick your dick in crazy.
[–]jimsgympartyhouse 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Mental health issues are real.
Prob lol
[–]jackzander 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ADHD/BPD
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
No mystery here, women are superior at staying detached so they don't feel guilty when they spin plates and monkey branch. Just do what they do and move onto the next one.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
But why would talk about future stuff and tell me I’m the most attractive guys she has ever seen ect….. texting me 24/7 to like nothing at all.
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
That was all talk. Actions speak louder then words. If she wanted to work toward a deeper meaningful connection with you she would have showed you that she is the real deal. The action a woman can take to show they are serious about you is to RESPECT you. Not replying for 3days is a smack in the face, she could have at least done the right thing and tell u what was up.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
But I mean she did tell me she said she wasn’t in a place to Persue ? But then mentioned hanging out again. She actually double text me when I didn’t respond but then I did and she hasn’t in 3 days lol I actually was giving her answers she really couldn’t respond to and she stil was trying then the sec I answered haven’t heard from her since
[–]Gabrieleight9219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She just honestly sounds like she’s bored and doesn’t know what she wants. Idk…. She just sounds a lot like me so that’s why I say this. I’m not that way now but a few years back I was. And I agree that it may had been all just talk. It’s also possible that she may be talking with other guys as well.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Agreed no to bothered by was just confused. Guess I’ll find another. And if she texts me idk what I’ll do yet
[–]Gabrieleight9219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well if I were you I would just tell her that if you aren’t her first option then to go ahead and try to find and be with someone else because you don’t want to be an option and play this game with her because all she’s doing is wasting your time and making you have feelings for her when she obviously doesn’t see you as a top priority.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Basically what I had in my head but she is gonna have to reach back out for me to do that. I refuse to text her. Lol idk maybe she will maybe she won’t. She was deff into me so idk
[–]Gabrieleight9219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Alright. Well you have it all figured out then. That’s good. But yea, women are just as guilty as playing the field as men are. Haha.
I agree she just really was good at hiding it said she was looking at long term ect…. Dosnt fuck on the first date hahah lol I literally walked into her apartment and she jumped on me I didn’t even try so probably not a good idea
I don’t catch feelings easy. Like I don’t care but she made me care I hate it
I’m literally making excuses for her hahahah lol nvm
Alright my question is what are the chances of her eventually texting me
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Don’t do anything. Don’t reach out to her, nothing. This chick is a little off . But she’s into you, so don’t text her , ignore her for a bit and she will come right back
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Kinda what I was thinking. I haven’t text her after she asked how I was doing and I said good. Just like thrown off. Lol obviously she was into me. But either she found someone she liked better or an ex came into the pic. I mean she was like head over heels for me. So left me confused
She might still be, but you can’t rush it. See if she reaches out again.
Agreed thank you
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Like yea I want her but if she does reach back out idk if I should even attempt it again. Or just be a dick to her make her chase me. My time is valuable to me.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don’t seem too interested if that’s how you feel
Like I am and then I’m not because I usually don’t put up with bullshit like that no matter how pretty or hot you are. It was more of the connection I guess. Getting a girl is a dime a dozen but idk this one I liked so it sucks. But idk if I should come off a little aggressive at first so she knows I don’t care to much
I honestly think I came on to strong and scared her away. It was mutual obsession between us but I never let her chase me so I think she got scared idk
[–]DustCrystal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Was the sex good?
Yea several times a night. Didn’t sleep one because we didn’t stop
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you may want to research something called "estrus".
😂😂
don't matter you got laid🫡
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
True but we connected. So wondering if she will ever reach out
haha yea my bad i just say shit like this cuz i can't get laid hahaha, i would just go with the girl blowing hot and cold every single time haha
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Agreed and that’s my point I literally have no issues getting laid or even having a gf at that matter I’m picky af. So my time is valuable. Hopefully she does which is sad I’m not usually like this I usually don’t care
i'd let it ride out a little and if nothing happens i guess move on
Guess that’s what I’ll do I refuse to reach back out
[–]BobbyLovesPoetry 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She has something going on bro. For what I’ve read I do think she likes you but something’s going on in her head that doesn’t want to trust you. It’s not you the problem but maybe something else in her life?? Have you asked her if everything’s okey in general?
Iv thought about the possibility of her not playing games and actually have shit going on. Which is fine cool. But she hasn’t responded In 3 days and I’m not the type to reach out to her if she wants to she will. I was just confused on the hot cold she was obsessed texting me 24/7 to now nothing. Small talk here and there. She didn’t owe me anything but yes I hope she reaches back out so I can put her in her place as to my value but I was just wanting some insight. Honestly I think she eas scared because we clicked so fast and things got heavy super quick. And I prob came off as clingy which im not I jsut liked her
[–]BobbyLovesPoetry 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe yeah she’s scared of the whole situation and feelings and shit. But who hasn’t honestly at some point specially when there’s a strong connection
I mean no I agree. My exact reason why literally everything has to line up for me to even think about giving a girl a sec of my time. Like any girl i fuck or even text back is lucky let alone should feel lucky. Girls are a dime a dozen so when I do give any part of myself to someone. It confuses the fuck out me when they act like this. But I will say I was prob way to move to her and to many compliments ect….. which I’m not like that she blinded me so I prob scared her off. Plus yes it scares me to
Maybe she was cheating on someone, maybe she was using you to get over someone, who the heck knows… important thing is you fucked her 3 times so congrats! Remember: she’s not yours, it’s only your turn
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