I (M 30) am somewhat ugly, overweight (working on it), and introverted. I don't get out much.

I am planning on joining a gym, I have lost 80 pounds this last year. Need to lose a lot more.

I would appreciate examples of how to make the most of what I got to work with. I know to dress well and be well groomed. But I also don't have much of a fashion sense. Some tips on that would be nice.