I'm a bit conflicted about putting more time into updating my digital "presence". One one hand, it seems like it's a good way of having some social proof if you have a decent Instagram that women can look through. It's like a "resume" of a fun/interesting life and I think women are also attracted if they see you in pictures having fun with other women etc.

But it's not clear to me that it's worth the time and effort. Also can be bad for mental health to be worrying about how many likes you're getting and what not.

Any thoughts?