Is it ok to ask for a kiss during a cold approach if the girl is into you?

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-04-04T13:56:33+00:00

As a general rule, no. In my life, the only cold approaches I got major blowback for were ones that involved me getting too physical too quick (mostly hugs) or trying to drag the interaction out too much through an instadate. Edit: also approaches where I linger too much before approaching, or have to catch up to her to approach (it feels to her too much like following).

However, If a situation comes up where you’re on an instadate and things are going extremely well (she is keeping good eye contaxt, receptive to lesser forms of kino, etc) then maybe. But in my history of doing maybe 1000 cold approaches, I can think of a grand total of 1 where making that sort of move would’ve been advisable (I didn’t), and close to two dozen where I ruined it by pushing too hard for the instant date or trying something like a hug.

incognito3107 · 2022-04-04T14:04:57+00:00

Asking is not good, but a kiss may happen if the mood is very good.

BangaiiWatchman · 2022-04-04T13:38:20+00:00

Ah, probably not. No.

buzzzard · 2022-04-04T13:58:34+00:00

If your feeling it, GO for it.

Ninja-Hitman · 2022-04-04T14:50:14+00:00

Nah man don’t ever do that. 1st of all if your cold approaching your in a public place. Most girls if not all wont be comfortable enough with a stranger to kiss them especially in public. Also asking for a kiss would just come off as weird and creepy (and it makes you look desperate). You should really only kiss on a date that you both agreed upon when the time is right. Not within the first 5 minutes of meeting a stranger bro.

FlatDistance5 · 2022-04-04T13:45:19+00:00

Yep, it’s rare but if the approach is going smooth enough, you should be standing close enough already. say I can see something in your eyes let me look, tell her, her eye color is interesting, get close and give her a light kiss.

I’ve never kissed during a daygame cold approach but I have felt on a sexy security guards ass, talked to about fucking bdsm style within the first five minutes of meeting another. And fucked girls later in the day from the approach. But situations like that are rare

So getting the date secured should be the number one goal, not getting a kiss and potentially fucking it up. You can do all that kissing shit on the date.

rofnacla · 2022-04-04T14:35:10+00:00

Asking for a kiss is a beta move

V-Future · 2022-04-04T14:49:53+00:00

Never ask for a kiss and don't flirt with women that aren't interested in you. Don't try to force it.

tylerdetata66 · 2022-04-04T14:53:47+00:00

never

2022-04-04T15:14:26+00:00

Process of elimination you will get your kiss

Title	Is it ok to ask for a kiss during a cold approach if the girl is into you?
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Date	April 4, 2022 1:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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