Why do we get self conscious with some people and when with close friends we aren’t ? And how to get rid of being self concious

Liberaler · 2022-03-27T15:02:38+00:00

Because with your friends, you already know how they behave and will react to certain things. A stranger is always a wild card. What can you do? Enjoying the excitement, getting used to talking to strangers, building up life experience.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-27T14:27:31+00:00

Define confidence. Because it can meet a lot of different things in this setting

eszibit · 2022-03-27T16:14:18+00:00

Most of our human history we used to live in 100-200 people tribes. There were all friends and family so you would be "confident" everyday. If you met people from another tribe you would be fearful - genetic trait that got passed on - and usually ran away, if not, the chances of being murdered were extremely high.

The only people who can be confident a.k.a fearless all the time are psychopaths. Fear from other people was what made it possible for all your grandparents to reproduce.

That's why meeting people through other people is always easier or in a safe group activity like a ~~orgy~~ dance class, college, etc where people can feel safe and get to know each other.

Title	Why do we get self conscious with some people and when with close friends we aren’t ? And how to get rid of being self concious
Author	BigBoss919
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	March 27, 2022 2:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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