In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase you

LesWhite · 2022-05-03T04:15:01+00:00

The key to getting women is to realize you're not going to get every woman, only the ones that like you

BridgetheDivide · 2022-05-03T02:55:18+00:00

Put on muscle.

I always did decently with women, but muscles just eliminated all the work.

jsbach123 · 2022-05-03T03:28:14+00:00

When I'm disinterested.

Feeling_Difference_8 · 2022-05-03T03:26:25+00:00

Had good looking girlfriends.

inverted_electron · 2022-05-03T02:11:24+00:00

Focus on yourself. Not on them.

RPEdmonton · 2022-05-03T02:23:47+00:00

Wait until they go out of their way for you / do something nice for you / approach you and then tell them a joke/story come other creative positive reenforcement

Throwthefuc · 2022-05-03T01:52:40+00:00

I’ve found snatching something like their phone while they’re using it (i.e. when it’s unlocked) typically will get a girl to chase you

Charlie_till · 2022-05-03T03:51:41+00:00

Being funny is one, but not too funny. Nobody wants to date a clown.

HEYTHEM03 · 2022-05-03T02:41:16+00:00

I ignore them, also having a poker face. if I find something funny i just smile a little. (that's me you don't have to force yourself)

cowarrior1 · 2022-05-03T04:40:46+00:00

Be confident, not cocky.

rocksnstyx · 2022-05-03T04:29:52+00:00

Started wearing better clothes, got treatment for my depression and a better haircut that accentuates my facial features

Janemba_Corvalis · 2022-05-03T02:13:31+00:00

That’s very subjective and varies on a case by case basis. If you want some objective and blatantly obvious answers, try being funny, charming and cool.

These posts are useless. You’re not going to get a magic answer that’s going to get you laid. Put in the work.

juannkulas · 2022-05-03T03:16:09+00:00

snatched their purses

jessiepc145 · 2022-05-03T04:37:07+00:00

Get ripped

GripIsEverything · 2022-05-03T05:54:08+00:00

I've always been good-looking but have never had women chase me, but rather make eye-contact. I thought it had to do with my weakass skiny frame. I worked hard at the gym, and got my nutrition in check. Day and night difference. Atleast a third of the girls at my gym have initiated conversations with me out of nowhere. Hell, they even ask me to spot them during squats. I do have some level of social anxiety though because of a shitty childhood, which is going away as well because of all these forced involuntary interactions. The only inconvenient thing in this equation is the women who are absolute stunners, who have never really cared to approach. I guess they never do to anyone. They expect to be chased, instead of doing the chasing.

Infamous-Living-1725 · 2022-05-03T04:13:36+00:00

Be hot as fuck

Spider--G · 2022-05-03T03:45:13+00:00

Being funny and authentic

Nrr1 · 2022-05-03T04:27:46+00:00

When you stop chasing her

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-03T04:05:24+00:00

Steal their purse

awakened_celestial · 2022-05-03T04:53:44+00:00

Pull back their hair and go “ayeee pappy 😩 “ Wait is this a serious post?

AceCoE · 2022-05-03T06:27:03+00:00

Light-hearted roasting that involves stories or a memory about the girl have worked for me. I'm doing this with girls I'm acquainted with, not cold approach. Though you could bring up something situational in those cases.

One example: this girl I barely talked to all semester - I finally chat her up and vibe a little I'm paying close attention to what she says. I see her a few days later and we chat again for maybe 60 seconds before I say "Yo we gotta talk. You said something so messed up to me the other day..." (she actually did say something controversial). I basically gave her an emotional spike. She completely locks in, walks up to me, solid eye contact, and reaches towards my arm demanding to talk about it. This is a girl who barely looked at me the previous 6 weeks. Next time I talked to her, she said she ended up thinking about it for a day or two after.

So in other words: make a girl feel strong emotions when she's with you. As long as it's not strong fear of course.

HighCompression · 2022-05-03T09:11:18+00:00

Does everyone like chicken wings? Nope

Would you try to convince someone who doesn’t like chicken wings that it’s the best food ever? Probably not because that would be a waste of time.

So…

Smile, be yourself, and your people will resonate with you!

Just remember, they won’t all like you. The key is to not waste your time trying to convince them to give you a shot/like you.

Use rejection as a filtering tool to save time and spend more time looking for the right people.

Lastly, build your own life. Girls want someone who has passions, hobbies, and a life of their own. If you aren’t happy by yourself, you won’t be happy with her.

Note: A few others mention fitness — only seek lifting if it’s for your mental health/insecurity. You need a deeper motivation than getting laid to be persistent and driven enough to follow through with lifting.

Feel free to ask questions and best of luck

HatchetXL · 2022-05-03T04:41:36+00:00

Be absolutely and completely not interested

themonsterinmybed · 2022-05-03T05:10:40+00:00

Working out and getting shredded. But more than that, just being happy with life. People in general want to be around happy people.

LevelUp84 · 2022-05-03T05:39:51+00:00

Losing weight and gaining some muscle. Girls don't even are about your personality after that 😂😂.

But seriously though, I have several activities that get me out of the house and around other people. Trivia at a bar is usually one of them and there is a social element built in. Softball is coming up and its easy because there is down time before you bat or while in the outfield.

WanyCaleb · 2022-05-03T06:17:31+00:00

Unless you're blessed in the genetics department, status or power department, you'll likely have to be the one "chasing"

Bark4Soul · 2022-05-03T06:19:33+00:00

Moved on with my life...

I don't know how people don't get this. I go through phases of "swipe swipe swipe...please notice me!"on apps and then I go "Fuck this, I'mma do me" and as soon as I do, the universe rewards.

Cant tell you how many times over the years I stop moping around and go out with the boys or to some function and post a story or pic of me living my life, seriously your comments and inbox will be full of "Hey wyd/why dont we kick it anymore/hey you" messages. It's a science. Females are attracted to guys who are wanted and loved by others, go make YOU happy, and then they will follow...

Silly_researcher35 · 2022-05-03T06:42:03+00:00

Yes. That’s really the key. I once had an ex that would not leave me alone. We were friends and I talked to him about how he was doing with girls. He said it wasn’t always a winning situation for him. So I told him the best thing to do is to act like you don’t really want it. Don’t be afraid cuz if you do it correctly it works. He told me it worked for him. I had told him that he needs to come across to girls that he is just trying to chill and be friends with everyone. It’s not going to work immediately on the really hot girls. But if you give it time, and just try to implement this personality that you kinda look at her as a good friend but that you don’t look at her in that way, it makes them wonder about you. You have to kinda give a girl a chance to notice you on her own. So be chilled, don’t be obviously focused on her. Just being around and being quiet is a step in the right direction. You don’t have to have something to say all the time. It makes us wonder. Try to appear disinterested or maybe not yet interested but in a friendly way. I hope this helps.

burncushlikewood · 2022-05-03T03:31:06+00:00

Make her jealous

recyclablebanthas · 2022-05-04T02:17:53+00:00

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In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase you

Thanks

What is seduction, really? It's a form of social interaction, which requires social skills and is a two way exchange. It's a team sport, where both parties contribute to the results.

It's not magic. It does not involve "making" people do things. It's not about one person doing things unilaterally to another.

If a girl chases, she is choosing to do so. The guy might be doing something to encourage it or it might be that who the guy is just lines up with her desires in a way that the guy really has no control over.

Either way, she is choosing to chase, of her own accord.

So, please see Rule 7: No beginner topics and assumptions.

Demonarke · 2022-05-03T05:13:59+00:00

Be really teasing, then eventually when the opportunity arises, make sexual jokes and tease her, eventually some kind of game is created where you both try to tease each other a lot, this eventually gets me laid, it's a pretty good technique I'd say, you have to be good at going back and forth with the snarky remarks though.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-05-03T05:45:41+00:00

Once I become very nonchalant and self-focused.

cuddaloreappu · 2022-05-03T03:09:32+00:00

why would you want a girl to chase you? would you like if a snake chases you? there is no difference

coldbrew18 · 2022-05-03T05:19:48+00:00

Steal their candy.

BackFlashy2939 · 2022-05-03T06:33:32+00:00

Focus on yourself and what truly makes you happy

Ladardar101 · 2022-05-03T06:34:03+00:00

Being yourself works wonders. Especially when you’re having fun and they see it.

incognito3107 · 2022-05-03T06:37:49+00:00

High status in my current social group.

vrki22 · 2022-05-03T06:50:05+00:00

Having big balls

davedude97 · 2022-05-03T06:52:50+00:00

Being good with improv.

DragonDinner22 · 2022-05-03T07:05:51+00:00

having a lot of tattoos means you only have to do 50% of what you would usually have to

YoungAussiePrince · 2022-05-03T07:15:09+00:00

Smelling good, get in the habit of wearing cologne, have a few scents for different occasions, a fresh summery scent for the day (if you’re a student this is good for uni/college) and then stronger ones you would wear when you go out

RoadyCoder · 2022-05-03T07:18:41+00:00

Mirroring. Specifically, your attitude towards them should be a direct reflection of their attitude towards you. If they’re acting disinterested, then walk away. If she asks you to wait there while she talks to someone else, then walk away. If she’s into you, then run your best game on her. Never buy her drinks, never be a simp, and never be afraid to walk away if she’s not giving you the respect you deserve.

VDKay · 2022-05-03T07:19:51+00:00

I chased other women. This didn't sit well with some girls I "kinda had something with", so they took a more "active" role :)

MK2718 · 2022-05-03T07:20:35+00:00

By not chasing them. Why Results Come When You Stop Caring

Bobby1510 · 2022-05-03T07:27:18+00:00

Ive always lived with flatmates and we always had parties from time to time. I read quite a lot and have an impressive bookshelf, its a girls magnet

GrimBrah · 2022-05-03T07:35:14+00:00

Ignore them

Groundbreaking-Ear92 · 2022-05-03T12:22:52+00:00

Went to law school. Attracted the type of women that I was interested in. Also some of the most formative years of my life.

False-Clerk-5073 · 2022-05-03T14:07:54+00:00

Good eye contact, where you can hold them but not in a creepy or awkward way. And smile, but not like Ted Bundy, more like George Clooney or Ryan Gosling smirk.
Don't let them know that you like them.
Have an athletic lifestyle. Most women tend to like guys who are very passionate about their life and future.
Don't just talk with women or be socially active all the time. Have a life.
Having a good face doesn't matter that much until you have a celebrity tier fame. But being the famous guy really works.
Have a good personality. Wear decent clothes. Take proper care of your body.
Being over 5'10+ just propels your chance of getting noticed. But if you're not, don't worry.
Confidence is the key. I remember getting attention from lots of girls in my school, but i didn't notice that because i used to bitch about being ugly.
Get some wing girl or have a good social circle. It works.
Don't be a bitch. Learn to stand up in public. Talk with the girl first you want to attract. It rarely happens that the girl you like is just going to chase you at first chase.

SoberDragon1st · 2022-05-06T23:39:04+00:00

One great post

Title	In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase you
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Date	May 3, 2022 1:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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