how did you handel?

Significant_Ad_6827 · 2022-03-26T23:02:14+00:00

What if she blames you for her cheating?

No_Inspection_7176 · 2022-03-27T03:45:58+00:00

I definitely think people are quick to deflect and try to assign blame, it’s human nature and often someone’s first reaction. It takes a lot of self reflection to accept personal responsibility when you do something shitty.

Most of the time when people cheat there are often underlying problems in the relationship. However, you should never be BLAMED for the cheating because it is 100% on the person that cheated, instead of communicating like a mature adult or ending it they chose to do something they knew would hurt their partner. If you both decide you want to try to rebuild the relationship it can be worth exploring some of the issues you both have with each other that led to the other persons infidelity but I’ll reiterate: you are not responsible for their cheating.

Monopoly41 · 2022-03-26T22:58:59+00:00

If she cheats on me , I simply walk away. No need to argue or fight. It’s over.

If I cheat on her , that was expected and normal.

Stay toxic king

betterme2610 · 2022-03-27T05:35:12+00:00

Cheaters get zero chances. Could talk to me about what bothers you first (be an adult)

marianoktm · 2022-03-27T16:04:00+00:00

Cheater will blame you almost always, but you can be the worst partner ever, is not YOUR fault because THEY decided to cheat, instead of ending the relationship.

I was victim of cheating. I was doing literally my best, even putting my mental health aside for her, but I found her kissing with another guy (check my comment history if you want the full story).

I handled it just by ending the relationship immediately, blocking her and him everywhere, reaching out to my friends and doing EVERYTHING I liked, even (and especially) if it was something I used to do with her. It wasn't easy, but now after 4 months, I feel better than ever.

redditor4206903 · 2022-03-27T15:45:28+00:00

I was the oposite of victim. The boyfriend was a beta-cuck. He was shoerter than me, less masculine etc... The best part is that I picked up his girl right beside him. And he didnt even fight me or anything. You couod say that she fell in love instantly. Lol.

Title	how did you handel?
Author	Significant_Ad_6827
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	March 26, 2022 10:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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