Hey. English is not my mother language so I may have some mistakes.

I am 18 years old. Been lurking here for a pretty long time.

I'll be direct and say that I am trying to get laid.

Went out with a girl a few times and kissed her. She texted me asking what I think about it, if that meant something for me. She said she had some feelings for me. I replied that I didn't think that being together would be a good choice for us (didn't like her personality) and I said that we should remain "romantic friends", she declined.

I'll skip to a few days ago. Some chick that I know started talking to me, and she looks pretty good, but I know that she is not a girl that I would like to have a relationship with. I would like to smash. A few hours ago a friend texted me and told me that she wants me, cool. What do I do now? I can hang out with her and talk to her and probably get to the kiss. The problem is that I want to get laid and not waste time, so a couple of questions:

  1. How do I talk to her? I can talk to people about random shit that happened to me, I can talk to people about my history, I get to know other's people history and share stories etc. Of course with expressing some touch, some teasing etc. But how can I be more to the point? More sexual? Less talky talky and shit?

  2. What do I do after the kiss? I mean yeah, I kissed her and we keep talking and shit. But what happens next? What if she wants us to be together? Some people here said that it was a mistake telling a girl that we won't handle being together and that we should remain "romantic partners". So what do I do?