Feeling weird going out alone

bestmenrmenatbest · 2022-03-17T12:54:14+00:00

Listen man nobody gives a shit about you. Nor should you care about the other people. If you are going there for women, they can tell. But if you are going there for just music and drinks, just do your thing and stand where other people are standing. If you were going to refill your soda at mcdonalds when you are on your own, would you be anxious? No. Its the same thing. You are only anxious because you are there for women.

My advice is go just for a good time. Don’t push for anything unless she is inviting you to herself by getting near you, smiling or other signs. And don’t look so depressing and lonely just drink and enjoy the music

2022-03-17T13:39:50+00:00

Don't worry Kanye The God is watching you drake has ensured that it's all a God's Plan.

Subject-Craft5870 · 2022-03-17T12:17:39+00:00

You want to get rid of social anxiety? Go to a club a few times alone and then experience that. It’s a nerve wracking anxiety inducing situation, but after you do it a few times. You level up!

Zebrahead033 · 2022-03-17T13:03:50+00:00

It's really about what state of mind you're in. Some people become extremely self conscious and insecure if they go out alone. Others prefer it.

I knew a women who would go out alone to meet men. Her strategy was simple. Go to a bar with only enough money to buy 1 drink. By the time she was going to finish the drink someone would have already approached her and offered to buy her another drink.

Liberaler · 2022-03-17T12:26:52+00:00

have small talk with random people on the street on the way to the club = warm up
talk to someone as soon as you arrive at the club - don't wait for five minutes immediately do it
avoid silently standing alone and watching other people at any cost. Always dance or talk to someone (other people, the bar keeper ...)

Title	Feeling weird going out alone
Author	Snoo_6566
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	March 17, 2022 12:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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