HOW DO I APPROACH GIRLS AT THE GYM?

strawhatkc · 2022-03-16T01:52:54+00:00

The gym isn’t an appropriate place to hit up girls, you’re going to make them uncomfortable when they’re just trying to work out. There’s a time and place and the gym isn’t that place.

Prof4CMV · 2022-03-16T02:02:22+00:00

Don’t try to force conversations with people at the gym. The gym should be a safe space where people go to get their gains.

If you go to the gym enough conversations will come up naturally with the people you see there around the same time you go

miles513 · 2022-03-15T22:04:16+00:00

Ask them to record with your phone while you do a certain exercise and tell them your gonna put it on your Snapchat or Instagram. That's an easy way to exchange information.

ssupersoaker69 · 2022-03-16T02:48:13+00:00

just focus on actually working out, because thats what the girls in the gym are there to do too. once youre comfortable in the space itll be easier to talk to people. work hard first, socialize second.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-16T04:21:35+00:00

Dont

BatBottleBank · 2022-03-15T20:58:51+00:00

Best idea is when they’re in the middle of a bench set or something

Take their headphones off while running if theyre on a treadmill so you look bold and alpha male

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-03-16T01:39:21+00:00

Don’t waste your time

scientist_1990 · 2022-03-16T01:19:15+00:00

Don’t interrupt while they’re working out. Approach either in between exercises or on the way in or the way out of the gym.

You could approach a girl and break the ice by saying “excuse me do you mind if I work in a set with you? “ and then chat her up while you workout

Or say “That’s really good form you got, you wanna work out sometime?” Get the number and leave.

I also thinks it’s fun to challenge a girl to an easy competition like a race- if there is a track or a one on one BBALL game for her number

You might get a girl to say yes to hanging out with you on the first ask or it might take 99 NO’s to get to that yes. Don’t get discouraged and keep trying. Confidence is the key my man!

Never sacrifice a good workout to chase some tail though, stay focused on your mission and women will respect you for that.

Maybe ask a girl for some tips on workout if you see her doing something. Even if you know the answer let her coach you.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-15T20:53:17+00:00

Compliment her on something, and tell them you want to get to know them because you want to find out if you like their personality too”.

Wait to do this when they are leaving the gym, or if there are group classes that allow for natural conversation.

don’t interrupt during workouts.

The_James_Bond · 2022-03-15T21:28:49+00:00

Hit the gym hard and women will approach you there. They usually ask me for workout tips or how to perform an exercise or ask me to spot them. It doesn't happen really often but it happens.

I'm not even impressive looking. I'm skinny with some muscle but my form is on point and I'm considerably stronger than most people who workout at my gym.

strawhatkc · 2022-03-15T22:36:05+00:00

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b58e · 2022-03-15T22:20:02+00:00

I never did it, in fact recently a girl approached me haha, but i would suggest you to ask some girl to spot you on bench press for example, even if you dont need it, on your last 2 reps pretend to need help and let her help you so she feels good. Then you can make a comment like "if it wasnt for you i would have had to do the roll of shame lol". Thats a starter, then you can say hi to the girl when you see her, maybe ask for her name too

fewbar2021 · 2022-03-16T05:05:23+00:00

I personally would not approach a woman at the gym. The gym is a pretty sacred place for a lot of people, and a lot of people who are there might be getting some of the only “me” time they’re going to get that day. Shoot your shot I guess, but I would tread carefully. I just can’t imagine someone is gonna think much beyond “this fool’s got a looooot of nerve”

I hope you’re an absolute specimen, I can’t see that going well haha. Lemme know how it goes i guess.

Edit: being raised without a dad doesn’t “pussify” you. Not all dads are even good dads, anyhow. Take responsibility for the person you are. Bunch of women are gonna be turned off if you’re saying shit like that anyways, there’s your second problem.

Title	HOW DO I APPROACH GIRLS AT THE GYM?
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Date	March 15, 2022 8:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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