I think society at large places a huge value on sex. And it’s very much “in your face”. I started to date around 2 months ago, and I’ve been fairly successful, but it seems like there’s a lot of pressure associated with even casual flings.

I think the lessons of seduction are important - being the best version of yourself etc. But, I think it ends there. I don’t think that women are anything special, especially since it’s too easy to base your value off sleeping with women.

Genetics play a HUGE role. A lot of men put a great deal of effort into seducing women. Even a night out, costing £100, isn’t value for money if you get laid.

In the last 2 months, I’ve definitely maxed out my appearance in terms of fashion, gym etc. And that’s the true value of this. Women, in this day and age, are notoriously difficult to date. OLD has basically made men abundant, and so even high standards are easily met. And once a woman has been with a guy who’s higher SMV, why would she go for a lower one?

As men, we need to understand that 90% of attraction is genetics. We will always be compared to other men.

In the last 2 months, I’ve done 3 approaches, 3 girls on OLD, and had sex with 4 girls. But I’m done with it now. It’s too easy to become outcome dependent. Argh