I hate approaching when other people are in ears reach?

DontTakePeopleSrsly · 2022-03-01T21:15:18+00:00

Stop caring what other people think, if you can’t follow the Jumbotron rule which is essentially a visualization of Poon Commandments V and VI:

“Every text or email or recordable instance of conversation you have with a girl must follow this simple rule:

If it were given a public airing, let’s say on a blog or a sports stadium jumbotron, you should feel comfortable with what you have written for the world to see. You should not feel an urge to wince, because it will be clear to everyone reading it how alpha you are.

If the thought of someone other than you and your girl reading your permanently archived romantic exchanges makes you cringe with embarrassment, then you are doing something wrong that will eventually lead to your girl dumping you.”

If you apply that rule to girls you approach, it doesn’t matter if you’re successful or not, because you didn’t do anything cringeworthy.

focus_flow69 · 2022-03-02T03:50:48+00:00

You are in your head. Cuz you are worried and scared of looking like a loser if you have a bad interaction or get rejected. You fear being mocked judged and ridiculed by these strangers. . The reality is, these people don't give a shit and some of them are even envious that you have the courage to talk to her. You are focussing on the negative outcome, so you are doomed to start. Instead think about what could go right. Think about how if someone overhears you chatting this girl up and getting her number. They are inspired by your success and go and approach another themselves later or they tell this story to their friends about how some ballsy dude approached this hot girl and said some mad cheesy lines but still got her number! If you are gonna fantasize about these fictional outcomes, at least focus on the positive ones. Reality is no one gives a shit because everyone is too worried about themselves

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-01T21:37:49+00:00

Lol, you call yourself a man if someone person can stop you from doing what's natural just by their presence? These people are nobodies. NPCs. Ghosts. Don't be an excuser.

Zeus_xo · 2022-03-01T21:10:54+00:00

You either go talk to her and don't give a damn what other people think of you or you could also pull her out of the group.

Your choice!

Title	I hate approaching when other people are in ears reach?
Author	Scorpio_Kiev
Upvotes	14
Comments	8
Date	March 1, 2022 8:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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