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Turbopre2 · 2022-02-21T17:28:29+00:00

You pass the test for possibly dating but the attraction isnt there yet.

aSpiderNerd · 2022-02-21T18:34:20+00:00

Perhaps you haven't created much sexual tension? I don't know since you did not mention, but have you flirted with her plenty, teased her here, and there? If it's always just been friendly vibes, then there's your answer. If you believe you've implemented some kino, tossed in some compliments, flirt with her here and there, then she is probably waiting for you to make the move. Only you will know if you have made it clear.

asdf1795 · 2022-02-21T17:35:31+00:00

Start talking to one of her friends and you’ll be shocked how quickly she changes her mind. I know it seems petty but it’s unfortunately how the world works. People don’t value what they think will always be readily available to them.

Oh4Sh0 · 2022-02-21T19:28:28+00:00

It’s a way of her saying she doesn’t lust for you. The attraction isn’t there.

Lose interest and see if she comes around.

Perhaps you’re coming on too hard and it’s a turn off. Or it’s just a nice way of her saying she isn’t interested but doesn’t want to be rude and use negatives to explain.

jessiepc145 · 2022-02-21T17:42:41+00:00

She insecure and it’s a shit test. Tryna see if you’re a player most likely

willgo-waggins · 2022-02-21T19:39:47+00:00

Nope.

You just don’t have that chemistry. It’s really that simple.

My FWB and I have insane and inherent chemistry. We will literally just be standing there chatting with people and she will just come over and suddenly tuck in under my arm and lay her head against my chest for a minute just to be close.

That’s your difference.

princelydeeds · 2022-02-21T21:33:32+00:00

Meh.... She thinks you're weak and you don't make her feminine parts tingle..

Don't be so nice, don't be too available, pay her less attention and act like you care less...

norwegiandoggo · 2022-02-21T16:51:41+00:00

Most likely it's because you've been friends with her for too long and she mentally can't remove the "friend" label from your forehead. But who knows, maybe it's because you don't make a clear move on her so she's just waiting for you to do something

2022-02-21T19:00:55+00:00

The only way you can find out is to just ask her out.

EchoTwice · 2022-02-22T16:12:00+00:00

Maybe move on? There are plenty of fish in the sea. Even if you do manage to get in a relationship with her there's no way to tell she won't regret it in three months seeing as she's not that attracted to you. However, It's your choice.

always_stay_activ3 · 2022-02-22T16:19:41+00:00

Yes... walk away!

Maximus_Dominus_Rex · 2022-02-22T19:06:08+00:00

She needs you to push her buttons and get under her skin. Tease her (flirt) without sexual innuendo. Don't be available to her all the time. Do not do things for but definitely do things with her. Make her laugh but don't try to be a comedian.

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