Title sums it up, but I’ll give some more info on what I’m looking for;

I’m a long time lurker, I’ve read plenty of shit here, nearly finished Models by Mark Manson, but now that I’ve got something coming up, which isn’t exactly a date, officially, my mind is kinda blank.

If somebody could give some ideally in-depth advice or sources to read about these topics, that would be great;

  • what to actually do on the first date

  • How to go about conversations and make them less restricted and more fun, playful, light hearted, when I’m more of a serious, deep topic person?

  • How to escalate?

I’ve got another post up which probably goes a little more into the details if anyone actually wants to check it out, it would be amazing. Feel free to ask for more info