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[–]Heavybench420 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eye contact. Relaxation. Don't talk that much. Just let the horny within u build up for a bit.......or you're not talking to women that you really really want lol
[–]joli7312 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is generally true, I do date many of them without being into them that much and frankly can't be too bothered with those. A few of them make me change my mind by turning me on. What I think I need is to get good at turning them on!
[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Easy: make yourself challenging. Here's an example:
Me: What's your sign?
Her: Gemini
Me: Oh, I'm an Aries, we're not compatible.
By saying "we aren't compatible" I am introducing the idea of her and me as an "item," possibly in a sexual way. At the same time, however, I make myself a challenge, like I am the prize. It changes the power dynamic in the interaction and makes her the chaser. It sounds stupid, but it works.
[–]vorter 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here’s a pretty solid post on ways to introduce flirting and teasing
[–]OrangeVoxel 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
-eye contact
-the first date must always be at night
-interactive activities or games help
-on first date, always ask age lost virginity and share. This get people thinking about sex. Don’t be nervous just ask it
-try to introduce her to a friend of yours somehow on the first date if you like her. This shows your social status and helps confirm to her you are normal
-touch her arm, back
-ask her full name and middle name, and about family
-after the date, text/snap daily. Otherwise she may lose attention. Not really conversations, more flirting and keeping in touch
-audio call her. Make sure to ask if it’s ok first. Ask if she doesn’t mind a call for a couple of minutes (some girls are weird about calls, and this also helps make sure she’s ready when you do call)
-on the second day after the date, text or call to set up another date
-be mysterious. Don’t say you want to see her again at the end of the first date. Keep each other guessing
[–]South_ParkRepublican 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I went on a first date recently and struggled a bit with this too... It's also tough cause these people we meet are literally strangers
Yea exactly! I think it may just be online dating in itself that has this issue. you're meeting someone for the first time what are the chances it's gonna be your crush?
[–]incognito3107 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to provide her with something that she hasn't experienced yet. Be more playful with the touch, take her to some unusual or even slightly "risky" situations, make her a little nervous or uneasy, provide multiple emotions, let her guess if she presented herself good, don't conclude your meeting, but rather leave an open gate and a bit of mystery.
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