For instance, I find British men adorable, mainly because they have some passive-aggressive tendencies in which they will never disclose what is really bothering them.

For instance, they will sulk and say nothing is wrong. But then you realize they were hurt when you did this and this at event B, and they're being a bit cold right now because they feel vulnerable and need some reassurance.

I usually find I attract these types of men: Super polite but with repressed anger issues, lol.

I think it's that I grew up in a similar family dynamic and culture, and we were always taught to be polite and never say what was really on our minds. However, suddenly everything will be percolating inside and we'll eventually all blow up at each other, then take a day off to reassess, and then apologize and go back to normal.

I find that British, Swiss, Scandinavian, French, Korean and Japanese cultures are identical in this way.

Now, American culture is quite different. People often pretend to be happy, and if you're outside the norm of happy, then you're a depressed person who needs medication. If you blow up at someone, then you're a narcissist who needs to be a psych ward and obviously people like to broadcast all their issues and seek sympathy and reassurance. In some ways, this is good that people don't let repressed anger percolate inside, otoh, there is rarely any privacy and people always actively try to meddle in all your affairs, which could be either good or bad.

American culture is also based on exhibitionism and pop psychology in which you air all your dirty laundry and every gripe you have every person you've ever met. These have both advantages and disadvantages. American, Italian and Russian cultures are similar in this way.

In terms of personality in MBTI, I find that I get along quite well with ESTP, ENTP, INFP, INTP, ISTJ, INTJ types but often clash with ESTJ, ESFJ, ISFJ types and this is because I have an anti-authoritarian personality and usually don't go along with something until I discover for myself if I want to go along with it or not and have a dislike for people who merely follow the rules because "that's what we're supposed to do" or they blindly trust whatever they've been told without properly researching facts, data, and anecdotal evidence. British education typically ingrains students to question the popular narrative whereas in American education, the opposite is true. Americans like to enact "cancel culture" on anyone they disagree with. British culture does not.

Do you find that culture and personality type have a lot to do with your innate attraction to someone?