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[–]throwaway564657465 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude just send the request.
The thing is Im scared she wont respond to the request and then tell every of her friends since we live in a small place everybody would know she curved me.
Mate you’re overthinking an imaginary scenario, let it go. You haven’t even added her and you are already playing out the worst scenario, stop being defeatist. Add her, if she accepts great. If she doesn’t accept, just move on dude. You took action, you done your part.
Good luck.
[–]throwaway197cali 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Gonna do it but what if she neither accepts or refuses, should I take the request back?
[–]throwaway564657465 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s up to you bud. Just be comfortable with whichever decision you make and not feel any regret.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to read a book called How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne to develop your confidence & learn the steps to maintaining women’s attraction. You seem like a calculated person, so read that book so you can go into dating prepared. Then it won’t feel like this wild scary thing to do to approach women because you know the principles of dating beforehand.
You can learn hard way by making all the worst mistakes yourself, or you can save yourself the embarrassment by reading that book.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell them what? That you wanted to follow her on Instagram?
There's not headline here.
Go for it or forever live in thought of "what if..."
[–]marcos_santino 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do it. And if you fail, move on and grow. Best way to stop thinking whether or not you're being a pussy.
[–]nomoiman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes you are. Go for it my g.
[–]almighty_nsa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What else would it be but being a pussy ? How do you intend to win in this scenario ? By doing nothing so you can tell yourself “at least I didn’t do anything wrong”.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
130 percent pussy.
[–]bmead0ws 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're already this invested in this girl it's probably not going to go in your favor. You seem really unsure of yourself and no matter what "tactics" you use your neediness is always going to premeate to the surface. You need to get out there and approach other women, get rejected and build your confidence from the rejctions that your incur.
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