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ChicoBrillo · 2022-01-17T03:46:12+00:00

It’s okay to take some time to process. What I do is tell myself “okay just feel all your feelings right now” and I give myself like a day or two to be as ridiculous and sad as I want.

But then it’s upward and onward. You don’t have to go right back into dating but keep telling yourself it’s okay.

Its okay to feel what you feel, it’s okay it didn’t work out. The pain will still be there but it will fade more each day.

I think letting yourself be sad a couple days in the beginning helps though. Just trying to burry it right off the bat isn’t healthy imo

Dynamyghte · 2022-01-17T03:44:47+00:00

Focus on something else for now, it should pass.

joelvaldezg · 2022-01-17T04:32:45+00:00

Hmmm. I think I am experiencing oneitis too with a girl I used to like. Mine is kinda rare I think. Because even though I think she connects with me very good, I am aware of her red flags and the things that I don’t like about her. I’d say go text other girls. I experienced it with this same girl before and I just started texting some other girls I dropped for this one, in less than a week my feelings were gone.

SnooMachines1406 · 2022-01-17T11:00:31+00:00

I would cut contact and talk to other women that should move things along faster, talking to other women you like usually allows you to forget about old ones. If you don't do that then just let time pass and eventually you will stop caring.

XtremePeace · 2022-01-17T07:11:37+00:00

Man that's so basic. You just don't get oneitis in this day and age. No offense whatsover but I see so many similar posts in this sub it makes me wanna puke.

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