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buckphif · 2022-01-10T23:25:35+00:00

Well this same thing happened to me. At first like you my first thought was ok screw her she’s playin games. But the advice I got was to not bring it up anymore the balls in her court and don’t act like you got rejected. Well I did that and the week after she asked me

determinator94 · 2022-01-11T04:26:45+00:00

I’d honestly just move on, my dude. Plenty of other fine-looking ladies out there who are less likely to flake on you like that.

cronasminate · 2022-01-11T10:05:26+00:00

She sounds like she just wants the attention, but doesn't intend to actually follow through. I've seen this pattern so many times and it always ends up the same.

I tend to not take it personally but I do gradually lose interest and text less until I am not texting them anymore. If I didn't do this I would have too many fucking female friends and have no time to myself. Women love the attention and the safety of having someone continuously trying to gain their favor. They will keep trying to lure you back in if you lose interest, but it will never go past that unless their situation changes and you are next in line. Like literally I had girls start calling me and liking everyone one of my posts, treating me to do lunch, inviting me out, etc. But there will always be a twists as to why things can't escalate i.e. they will have someone with them, they will be too busy in an hour, suddenly something come up. You can't force someone who is not open to escalation. If you detect these patterns earlier, the less time you will waste.

I personally don't mind, but my time and attention are limited so they get cut off. I've learned to actually detect it earlier and earlier and find cues if someone is like this. Things such as excuses very early on when setting a date, or saying yes but not really. You need to learn to reciprocate commitment and pull it back if they don't follow up with their own or they will waste your time.

If you have no better use of your time and still starting, it can be useful for you just to learn how to socialize. If not then, just stay friends and let it fade out naturally. If you run into her somewhere or she decided to hit you up then she will get another chance.

This world is full of bullshit and you need to know how to play the bullshit game.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-11T06:13:50+00:00

Omg she is so into you that she got scared shitless of actually meeting you. She is probably sitting in a corner with her vibratory fantasizing about you but can't grow the balls to actually meet you in person.

You should just show up at her house and watch her from across the street. This way you will really lower her nervousness and she will fall in love with you.

Compromised_Lettuce · 2022-01-11T08:44:40+00:00

Welp. She might be a catfish.

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