TRP always discusses how you should create a strong frame (aka reality) and always make people enter your frame, not theres. The first part,creating a strong frame, I agree 100% with. However, I've found that making people enter your frame all the time is actually inconvenient in social situations.

Usually, it's best to enter other people's frame and validate it and make them feel good about themselves and their beliefs. This will make the person automatically relate to you and enjoy being around you. You will also learn a lot about them and they won't learn much about you, giving you the power in the relationship.

I've noticed people with frames who force everyone around them into it tend to be disliked a lot more than they should be, even if they have a confident and strong frame. They would be better off calming down and pretending to care and relate to others with their strong frame. And yes, this applies to socializing with women as well.

Basically what I am saying here is, TRP says to create a strong and positive frame and make everyone around you join it, but I say to create a strong and positive reality, but use it to understand other people's frame and manipulate it to your benefit. What do you guys think?