How to approach women sitting in a cofee shop or restaurant? [recovered]

norwegiandoggo · 2021-12-27T09:13:05+00:00

Sit down with your computer, look like you're doing some work, dress nice, take a lot of space and look like you're in a great mood. Scan the room for women casually every now and then. Do you catch eye contact with any of them? Great. Now smile. Do they smile back? Awesome. Then go up after about 30 seconds and ask them how they're doing or ask them advice on something.

lilabelle12 · 2021-12-27T18:36:14+00:00

Try to not be too creepy. So, maybe strategically ask them a question in regards to the place or something they may be able to help you with. For example, “what would you recommend ordering from this place?”, then when they let you know, make some kind of eye contact, hold and smile if you can in somewhat a smooth way. Then try to see if you can make conversation after and get their number.

Good luck!

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2021-12-27T22:12:14+00:00

When I goto a coffee shop with the intention of approaching the girls give me the cold shoulder. If I go there with the intention of getting work done or just reading a book, I occasionally get obvious choosing signals and strike up conversations. Overall it’s not a productive venue for me.

Delicatestatesmen · 2021-12-28T02:06:31+00:00

You don’t approach period. what you do is get a cute dog and sit at the coffee shop until a girl comes to pet your dog then you can engage. If you don’t have a dog go to the coffee shop everyday and soon regulars will sit by you and talk wait for the girl to make convo with you or give you choosing signal. I have met many girls from coffee shops. My dog would also do tricks to help me out.

Another tip is to order two coffees and ask a girl if she would like a coffee say they messed up my order so I have an extra coffee.

IngenuityNo1518 · 2021-12-27T10:20:31+00:00

If your not comfortable approaching “I would approach her in comment something she’s reading or wearing! You can even ask her what kind of drink she drinking say it look amazing!” If you’re comfortable approaching I would go direct in say “ I saw you sitting and I thought you were absolutely gorgeous I had to come over say hi ( With Direct Eye)

Then Introduce yourself, then ask her what she up to now.

Then talk about anything you want. It’s easy in the daytime she not use to being approached.

Lincoln4ever · 2021-12-28T00:30:35+00:00

I used to write things on my coffee cups and just walk up and leave them on their table, smile and walk away. “I wanted to say hello! You seem really cool. Come say hi if you’d like 😀”

Doesn’t always work, but it definitely has worked. One girl played along and wrote back on her coffee cup. I ended up leaving my number and things went great from there.

Fknluvubro · 2021-12-27T13:11:35+00:00

Don’t approach girls sitting alone in a coffee shop or restaurant. Leave them alone and be respectful ffs

TheTruth221 · 2021-12-27T10:13:12+00:00

tell them they have an artistic vibe and ask if they a artist

CrystalBlueEyes8 · 2021-12-27T08:51:02+00:00

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Title	How to approach women sitting in a cofee shop or restaurant? [recovered]
Author	Standard_Anything135 [recovered]
Upvotes	10
Comments	18
Date	December 27, 2021 8:46 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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