Escalating. Is this a good mindset to have?

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-12-22T20:49:32+00:00

Jesus, who has time for this shit. When you take her out tell her that there is no kissing on the first date and that the date will only last 30 mins. If she asks you wtf, tell her that you wouldn't want to impose yourselves on each other for a whole evening in case there isn't chemistry. But if there is a spark, you can move in straight into the second date. This way you can have 3-4 dates before you take her home.

VorpalPaperclip · 2021-12-23T01:57:24+00:00

Far too much cringy, fear based thinking in this.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-22T22:16:41+00:00

Don't know why you're making this weird analogy. I escalate on the first date, sometimes ending in sex. No reason you can't do the same.

knightgod1177 · 2021-12-23T04:13:32+00:00

If this helps you mentally visualize escalation, I guess it’s helpful? But frankly it’s borderline batshit ridiculous if you legitimately approach each escalation as “getting the flame into a roaring blaze”. Just call it what it is: passion. You seem to have an okay grasp on escalation, you don’t need to think about it as a “flame” at each and every escalation. Seems like too much thought and mind game shit

excentrik-art · 2021-12-23T17:13:17+00:00

My idea to escalate:

Make her horny AF in first 30 mts without major release.

Every further decision of hers is now affected by horniness.

Fucking is now only thing on her mind, and you are there to allow it.

Fucking flowers man ...

Title	Escalating. Is this a good mindset to have?
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Date	December 22, 2021 8:37 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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