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[–]WeakEmu8 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ignore what she says, watch what she does
[–]Avnas3 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Based on the nature of your relationship in the past, it seems very natural to me that this woman would need quite a bit of time to get over that. She might still experience feelings of insecurity around you, but it certainly seems like she’s attempting to move past these past problems.
I would advise giving her the time she needs to move past these problems (which I’m sure you’re already doing) as it might be quite difficult for her to do so. Perhaps offer her reassurances - that you love her body, and that you’re not going to flake on her again.
For yourself, make sure she’s clear on where you stand - it wouldn’t be fair for you to remain in a relationship when it is in a state you are not comfortable with. If you’re serious about this girl, make sure to give her the time to overcome these problems and I’m sure you’ll be fine! All in all, I think offering her your reassurances would go a long way here :)
[–]networknoob101 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea, time is everything I just hate that I’m ready for her but she’s hesitant on me.
[–]Avnas3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From what you’ve described she’s not hesitant on you because she doesn’t like you, just because she is working on her own insecurities. I’m sure it won’t take long for her to overcome this, in the meantime remind yourself that she’s putting in all this effort so that she can comfortably be in a relationship with you, which must mean she’s very fond of you :)
[–]ProfessorZoom80 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are not her priority.She is playing with you and she is seeing other guys, believe me.A woman knows immediately if she wants you or not.
When a woman says: I need more time. She just want to string you along, dont believe her ;)
[–]networknoob101 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m seeing other girls but she’s the top one for me. I’m sure she’s dating other guys but I really think she’s just guarding herself from me because of my past interactions with her. I also think she’s aware I’m talking to other girls because she mentioned “ask one of your other girls” to me in a sarcastic way.
[–]ChadsGrandfather 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is your question exactly? Why is she behaving the way she is after having slept with her? Or why isn’t she being more clingy instead of keeping you at arms distance? What do you want to know specifically? “Thoughts” is too vague of a question
She’s giving me mixed signals. For example Friday morning she called me and said she wanted to see me, I couldn’t because I had work. Then she went out that night and drink texted me but I was asleep. Then yesterday we hung out all day just doing typical boyfriend girlfriend stuff (walked around the city, went to the dog park, ate food, cuddled + sex) but then she says she needs more time to know me.
[–]RobertChardonnay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you were a dick to her previously, she shouldn’t be seeing you. And she knows it.
[–]SnooDingos7816 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A few months?
Actually technically like 2 months
[–]brabus4 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't ask how much she likes you. That's what insecure people do.
True, I figured I’d ask her because she asked if I missed her
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