Opening a cold approach

FairAnalyst · 2021-12-04T20:55:14+00:00

That comment from chicks is the result of putting too much pressure on them right away. Some pressure on is good - but too much at once can cross a line and you gotta step off the gas.

You can make your direct line work if you can step off the gas a bit with something like ‘ah my bad, I’m just a very forthright sort of guy’ and then physically give her space (like step back) and change topics to something else.

The alternative is go in less verbally direct but your intentions are direct. Like say one thing but mean another - like sarcasm.

You can achieve this with like - Hi. I’m [your name here]. Using a tone reflecting the vibe you wish to convey. Just don’t be friendly or neutral.

When it comes to chicks demonstrating is more effective than telling her something. Telling a chick something can have opposite effect (like bragging).

So like if you think a chick is hot - going up with the vibe you think she’s hot and emoting it with Hi. I’m [name] will get you further than saying ‘you’re pretty/hot/sexy’. Chicks will be able to read between the lines.

002BigBoss · 2021-12-04T19:14:15+00:00

Please don’t tell me you are just saying “you are pretty”!? Even though anything can really work when said with confidence and followed by something else interesting to provide value. Even though 50% of woman you meet will be worried about their looks and feel great to know you find then pretty, the other 50% will just think its shallow and uninteresting... A very good strategy is to either use a “neg”. You say something in a vocal tonality like it is a big complement but in reality its just an observation, this will generate intrigue and sound in their hearts like you gave them a complement, here is a few exemples: 1- waw, you have such intersting eyes! 2- waw the way you carry yourself is really unique! 3- your smile is so curious!

As an alternative you can also give them complements as well but they have to be really really specific, and not just saying she looks good, Something like: 1- the way your lips move when you are curious about something is so pretty 2- the combination of your smile with your brown eyes, makes you really shine, you look like a tree came alive / (cloud if they are blue) 3- i love the confidence you have when you walk, it makes you look like a warrior

Anything like that, but you can do better i hope 🙂 Whatever you say just make sure you really believe it and say it wholeheartedly! As long as you are genuine it will sound good.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-12-04T19:02:19+00:00

Do you really seriously think that the problem is your pickup line?

Title	Opening a cold approach
Author	unlivedbread
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	December 4, 2021 6:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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