M24 and I'm fortunate to do decently well in terms of getting a fair bit of matches from moderately-very attractive women with a decent reply/engagement rate.
Usually on tinder, I move fairly quickly, after around 5-15 messages total of some lighthearted teasing/banter/subtle qualifying, I suggest we meet up and get their number.
I follow the advice that's often thrown around on here, move quickly, get their number, only text for logistics, set something up for the near future. So I'm good with the get them interested, get their number, set something up part.
The issue is, when we meet up, quite a lot of them turn out to be duds (or just quite incompatible at best) personality wise and it's just a waste of my time and effort (when I have such little time and there's so many potential women to meet up with).
So I'm curious what I can do to be better/more efficient/thorough in filtering/vetting my Tinder matches before meeting up with them without becoming a pen pal etc and still keeping them invested in me?
Do I need to be much harsher in qualifying them in texts once I have their number, and take my time in doing so? Should I focus on only qualifying them on the main points that are the biggest deals to me?
Any advice, guides etc for how I can best do this to help me better achieve what I want?
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