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[–]No_Way2496 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Couple of things I learned:
1) You have to make make moves. Go for it. Not saying you have to have sex on the first date, just saying you need to show your intentions. Be clear from the beginning (by your actions) that you are interested in her and want to connect. By being clear you straight away can gage the vibe, if she is not on the same vibe, on to the next one.
2) Accept rejection like a man. If she is not interested, sucks for me, but atleast their is clarity. Don’t chase like a fool, accept it like a man and move on. If she doesn’t value you go meet someone who does value your company.
Sometimes it’s difficult if you really like someone, but if their is lack of interest (eg last minute rescheduling) that just shows me im not the priority which is fine, but if she is too scared to tell it to my face, I’m not going to keep guessing and give you emptional attention if it doesnt lead to anything.
3) Go out in the field. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Instead of waiting for everyone to join/ do something with you. Go alone. Eg. Travel alone, go to hostels meet people. Go to an event/ galery alone, you be suprised how many people you can meet.
4) Always say yes when someone throws a party/ event. You never know who you meet. Easier to flirt/ get to know women in these type of events Because their is common interest/ connection. Easy opener could be how do you know…. (Name of person)
5)best way to meet girls is if it feels natural. Eg Salsa class, Yoga, language course
6) ONLINE DATING - Is totally accepted in 2021
[–]UnderTheSettingSun 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
online dating might be accepted but if you compare cold approach results to online dating results there are no comparrison. If you successfully interact with someone in real life, in my experience, they will be almost twice as attractive as the girls that are you can meet from Tinder
[–]No_Way2496 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes true. Online dating is a good addition. Don’t depend on it.
[–]Nofapdeity 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I did many cold approach this semester, failed every time
[–]UnderTheSettingSun 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw your post history, "I'm the opposite of nice, I can actually be quite rude" That's your issue. Being nice is not bad. Being a "nice guy" = "If I am nice to you, you owe me sex" is bad. If you walk around thinking that you are hot shit because you are rude then obviously people are not gonna enjoy you. Why invite negativity into their lives if they don't need to?
If you say that you are not rude during your cold approaches and you have no success then you have to overhaul yourself. You have to get in better shape, dress better, get a better haircut, have a skin care routine,
and also work on your game, get more comfortable talking to people you don't know, show your intent, ask them out for dates.
And then you think "I can't be bothered doing all of that" but then at least you know why it isn't happening for you. I can only show you the door, you have to walk through it.
[–]getyahfuckingyeeted 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do you make moves without being creepy?
[–]No_Way2496 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The best way is to make your move straight away without hesitation. As soon as you see someone interesting walk up to her, naturally this will feel less creepy then if you wait like 1-2 minutes.
Second thing is to have strong eye contact and small. If you break it, she will feel less trust. Smile = always friendly so people naturally will listen to a friendly approach.
And then show her your intentions. You can compliment her style.
Or throw in an question/ assumption - Eg. You look exotic, are you from Brazil? Or I need a female opinion what gift should I buy for my niece? Try to avoid interview mode.
At the end of the day cold approach aka Day Game is difficult no matter how good your game is.
It’s already way easier in group settings eg you go with friends to a park, beach, festival, concert > these places people go to be social.
In the street we don’t know what they are doing, will be doing, busy, working meeting their friend/ boyfriend. So it’s just a difficult game.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imagine ur date is just constantly hinting you to try harder and then she ends up kissing another guy
[–]RainbowChardonnay 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nerdy women can reject men too.
[–]xSathya 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Any tips on how to show sexual confidence and how to know when to do it without it being too soon? I feel like a lot of my first dates fail because I don’t advance sexually, but honestly, I’m just trying to get to know them first
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[–]xSathya 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Really? I don’t know what to believe anymore. Some people tell me I should kiss on the first date. Others tell me to avoid at all costs
[–]bandsupjay 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice
[–]Nofapdeity 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is a unicorn women?
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