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Therocksays2020 · 2021-11-26T04:43:03+00:00

Cold dming women on Instagram is the biggest waste of time ever. You’re one of many guys who message them.

For hinge. Get better pictures or your profile reviewed on that sub. A lot of guys have major red flags in their profile and don’t even know it.

Living with your parents isn’t a dealbreaker at 27 for most.

Help your chances by getting out and engaging women in the real world. If you look out on Reddit a lot of women are glad guys are approaching them in public. It’s the best way to show confidence.

5_7pickup · 2021-11-26T08:51:19+00:00

DMing girls on IG is a waste of time unless you got like a lit profile and have like 500k followers.
OLD is hard. If you want to pursue OLD you need professional photos and you need to max your looks. Haircut, clothes, eyebrow, gym, etc. Youre probably not shadowbanned. Just nobody wants to match with you.
Living with parents isnt a deal breaker. I used to pull all the time to my parents house.
No clue
Cold approach in person is the best method.

Refer to my field reports for cold approach. I do solo nightclub game.

TearsofAnger · 2021-11-26T03:20:39+00:00

What's wrong with talking to a chunky girl bro?

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-11-26T04:33:01+00:00

Don't cold DM women, very low success rate in general
You gotta make sure you use a new phone, email address, and phone number when trying to create a new account to get around tinder bans. If you're just shadowbanned, then just delete your account and start over. Make sure you have a good profile when you do. Check out my last post if you want info on how to make one.
Get your own place. Consider moving to a different city if you have to.
Improve the things you can and forget about the things you can't.
Take bachata courses and get good at it. You can meet lots of women at bachata socials. Or start going out to bars on your own. Otherwise, get good at OLD.

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CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-26T10:43:00+00:00

Women want to feel things, so the things you say need to get emotional reactions from them, you do that by roasting her (teasing her) provoking them, flirting, and telling them they are special and different from other girls when they proved to be.

You need to skip the formal boring talk of “how are you”, “what do you do for a living”, “where do you study”, “do you want any kids and all that boring shit”, “i am working in Atlanta, been there 2 years now, i like my job and you?”…, and instead just start with the jokes, the teasing, the flirting, the provocations, and basically hit on her.

You need to also talk about how things make you feel, (making sure you stay positive) because your negative feelings won’t make you attractive.

Women connect by sharing how things feel so they can relate to you.

Also you need to fake confidence because insecurity is a turn off, no girl will be forgiving of insecurity when it comes to feeling attracted because insecurity just isn’t attractive. Women your age have had enough of insecure guys because it’s a pain to have to live with someone insecure and needy.

So you need to act like you are the best shit, you need to love yourself, not take things personal, not let her negative comments about you affect you in anyway and always maintain the frame that she needs to earn your desire for her, and never ever acting like you have to convince her to like you.

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